Social Skills
What are good ways to greet people when they walk into a room or when we see them in the hallway?
Smile, wave, head-nod, saying Hello, asking "How are you doing?"
Why is it important to get things organized ahead of time?
It's important in order to stay on track and feel overwhelmed by everything.
A girl in your work group/or table partner is very bossy. How does that make you feel? Why?
Frustrated, angry... explain...
Name a few calming activities you can do alone.
Art, watch TV, work on a hobby, go for a walk, make phone calls, listen to music, exercise, clean.
What qualities do you think make someone a “trusted adult”? Who are the trusted adults in your life?
Who are people who make you feel safe, are good listeners and are helpful when someone is facing a challenge.
True or False: It is ok to join a conversation that is light-hearted and looks fun.
TRUE. It is okay to join conversations that look light-hearted and fun.
Why is it important to find your own way of organizing your school and homework? Name one thing you're doing to stay organized.
Everyone is different and not everything works for everyone.
Answers vary.
What makes someone a friend?
Someone that you like spending time with and likes spending time with you. You usually have something in common or like/dislike the same things.
What can you say to yourself when something is hard?
I can do this, I will give my best effort, I can ask for help, I am learning... I am enough!
True or false: When playing cards or a board game, it is alright to scream and yell when you lose.
False. It's okay to feel angry inside but not ok to scream. It is important to be a good sport and congratulate the winner. Remember it is just a game.
What does someone look like who is annoyed and feeling uncomfortable?
Looking away, fidgeting, frowning, looking down, breathing quickly, being extra quiet, etc.
Why is an afterschool/homework routine important?
A routine can help you stay consistent and on track of your academics.
True or false: If you don't like someone, tell them you hate them.
False. It is not necessary to tell someone we hate them. We can simply keep our distance. It is always important to respect others.
Name two things you can do to calm yourself if you are feeling angry.
Take a deep breath, count to 10, hug a stuffed animal, go for a walk, draw, play music, dance, write it down, talk with someone...
True or false: It is okay to ask someone you don't know well for personal information?
False. It's ok to share personal information with people important and close to you, but it's important to respect privacy.
When I want to talk to someone, how should I go about that?
Say Hello, or say something to get their attention and then wait for them to look at me. If they are already in a conversation, I can join the conversation by adding something to it.
Name three things your teachers expect from students in the classroom?
Quiet, paying attention, listening, raising hand to ask a question, supplies ready, work completed, proper voice level...
Give one example of a little problem and one example of a big problem.
Little... Big...
If someone at school has upset me by something they have said or done, who should I talk to about it with?
Staff or your teacher. If you are upset go to a trusted adult to help handle the situation.
If you see a group of kids in the hallway, arguing with one of them visibly upset, is it a good time to join that group?
No. It is better to give them space, and if need be tell a trusted adult.
How can I tell if someone is happy to see me and may be interested in talking with me?
If they turn toward me, look at me, smile, maybe wave, or say Hello. Those are all clues that they may want to talk with me.
Why is it important to double check if you have everything before you leave for school?
If someone is upset what should you do?
Ask them if they are okay. Tell them you are sorry they're feeling upset. Ask if there is anything you can do to help. If needed, get a trusted adult involved.
Why is it important to practice calming skills when you are feeling relaxed?
Practicing calming skills when you are relaxed helps to understand how your body feels when you are calm, and helps you to learn the skills so you can use them when you feel upset.
What is a good way to make a connection with someone in a brand new class?
Smile, look friendly, wave, say Hello.