active listening
In what way can we show that we are actively listening?
A. by looking away while someone is talking.
B. by maintaining eye contact while someone is talking.
C. by interrupting the person talking
B. maintaining eye contact allows the speaker to know you are engaged and listening.
name one appropriate person it is ok to share personal information with
(ex: parent/guardian, your therapist etc...)
Bullying is when a person purposefully hurts others with words or actions
Give an example of positive peer pressure
(ex: encouraging a friend to eat healthy)
What is self-critical sarcasm?
A. poking fun at someone else
B. poking fun at your self
C. saying the opposite of what you mean
B. poking fun at yourself.
list one thing you learned about a peer in group while using your active listening skills
if peer says it is correct, point given.
true or false: if you see Erik walking down the hallway, this is an appropriate time to share a personal story or information
false, this is not a private space for personal conversations
give two examples if physical bullying
(ex: hitting, pushing, kicking)
Give two examples of negative peer pressure
When someone says something that is obvious
and you respond: “Really, Sherlock? You sure are clever”
what kind of sarcasm is this? (brooding, self critical, juvenile, or deadpan)
juvenile
name two ways to show you are not actively listening
(ex: no eye contact, interrupting, walking away while someone is talking, fidgeting etc...)
true or false: if you are in art group with your peers, this is an appropriate time to share personal information or stories?
false, while this may be a group, sharing personal stories in art group is the inappropriate time and place
spreading rumors and causing embarrassment is what kind of bullying?
A. cyber bullying
B. verbal bullying
C. social bullying
C. social bullying
Peer pressure can influence:
a) clothing styles
b) hairstyles
c) taste in music
d) all of the above
d. all of the above
Janet had a cold. She blew her nose every two minutes. Bobby asked the class, “Is there an elephant in here?”
what is the sarcastic statement in this sentence?
“Is there an elephant in here?”
give an example of an open ended question
(ex: What is your favorite food?,
What type of music?
What is your favorite movies?
any question that do not require a "yes" or "no" answer
true or false: you are in individual therapy, this is an appropriate time to share personal information or stories
true, individual therapy is a private safe space for you to share
name two examples of verbal bullying
(ex: name calling, making hurtful comments )
Personal qualities that can help people resist negative peer pressure include:
a) speed
b) self-confidence and assertiveness
c) nice smile and lustrous hair
b. self-confidence and assertiveness
The more you are happy with who you are and your choices and values, the less likely you will be influenced by other people.
You see you mom carrying heavy grocery bags.
and she says “I could use some more weight
what kind of sarcasm is this?
brooding ( saying the opposite of what you mean)
finish the lyrics to this song
So I put my hands up, they're playin' my song...
The butterflies fly away, I'm noddin' my head like, yeah! Movin' my hips like, yeah!
what are two questions you want to ask yourself before sharing personal information?
1. is this someone I trust?
2. is this the right time or place to share my personal information?
this is an example of what kind of bullying
verbal bullying
List three reasons why people might give in to peer pressure.
(ex: fear, low self-esteem...)
What is Deadpan sarcasm?
A. saying the opposite of what you mean
B. poking fun at yourself
C. sarcasm given in serious tone
c. sarcasm given in serious tone