School
TRUE OR FALSE: If I need to get water or use the restroom when I'm at school, I always need to ask permission before leaving the room.
True
TRUE OR FALSE: When my mom tells me "no," I should yell, scream, break things, or keep bugging her until she changes her mind.
FALSE; you should use coping skills to remain calm, say okay, and don't argue. If you have any questions, ask them later when both people are calm.
TRUE OR FALSE: If you don't like someone, you should tell them you hate them or say mean things until they leave you alone.
FALSE: It is not acceptable to tell someone you hate them. It is always important to respect others.
BONUS (x2): What should you do if you are forced to be around someone who you don't like?
NAME THE TERM:
A group of people who work together to reach a common goal.
What is a TEAM?
BONUS (x2): name 2 characteristics of a "good" teammate.
What is the basketball team called that is based in Indianapolis, Indiana?
What are The Indiana Pacers?
TRUE OR FALSE: It is ok to touch, take, or look into someone's belongings when they aren't looking. Explain.
False. It is important to respect others' belongings and privacy. You would not appreciate someone messing with your personal items when you were not around.
Why is it important to wear deodorant and shower?
So that we don't smell bad/offensive. If you smell bad, others may not have positive thoughts or want to spend time with me.
TRUE OR FALSE:
If my friend and I have a disagreement, we cannot be friends anymore.
FALSE: Disagreements are normal and there are healthy ways to solve them.
BONUS(x2): What is one healthy way to solve a disagreement with a friend?
Name 2 qualities of a strong leader.
Clear, Empathetic, Responsible, Honest, Self-Confidence, Self-Awareness, Empathetic, Motivating, Thoughtful, Good Decision-making, Able to accept accountability, ETC.
Who is the all-time leading scorer in NBA history?
What is Lebron James?
BONUS (x2): Who is #2?
If someone is already talking with someone but you really need to ask them a question, what should you do?
a. Run up and just start asking.
b. Continue to poke at them until they give you all their attention.
c. Stand really close to them so they know you're waiting for them to finish.
d. Politely let them know you need to ask them a question, then wait quietly until they are finished.
e. Continue repeating your question, getting louder and louder until they respond.
1. Stand nearby until there is a break in conversation.
2. If they do not notice you, tap their shoulder or get their attention quietly.
3. Wait quietly until they are able to give you their attention.
Name 3 appropriate/prosocial activities you can do alone when bored.
Read, Watch TV/Movie/Videos, Listen to music, Take a nap, Exercise, Hoop, Re-organize your room, Plan outfits, Online shopping/looking, Draw, ETC
What are three "red flags" for a bad friend.
Always makes the conversation about themself, they don't show interest while you're talking, tells other people your personal information, taking/using your property without asking, making fun of you, always feeling the need to "One Up" you, they never like your other friends, dismissive of your accomplishments, only reaching out when they need something/never willing to help you in return
NAME THE TERM:
"Regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others."
What is RESPECT?
Which team drafted Michael Jordan in 1984?
What are the Chicago Bulls?
I am assigned a group project in class. Me and my groupmates move to sit together at a table. What is the first thing we should talk about?
Assign roles. Discuss who will do what to get the project.
What should you do before walking away from someone? (even when upset and/or "taking a break")
Talk before you walk. Let them know why you are leaving.
BONUS (x2): Give me an example of something you could say if you need to leave an area because you are upset.
True or False: Peer pressure is always a bad or negative thing.
FALSE: Supportive peers can pressure others into making good decisions.
What are some benefits that exercise provides?
Improved mood, increased energy, emotion regulation, weight management, increase muscle mass, improve skin health, reduce risk of chronic health problems, ETC.
Who is known as "The Answer" in the NBA?
Allen Iverson
If my teacher has upset me by something they have said or done, what can I do to resolve the conflict or avoid escalating the situation?
Ask your teacher if they are able to talk with you at some point during the school day and explain your feelings using "I" statements. If you feel like you can't calmly express yourself- seek help from a mediator.
What skill should I be using while my parent is giving me directions? (e.g., telling you what chores you need to do)
Active Listening
Name 3 ways you can tell someone may be annoyed with you or finished with a social interaction.
Crossed arms, looking everywhere but at you, turning their body away from you, large sighs/exhales, short replies, ignoring/not responding, facial expression (irritated, tired, angry), walking away mid-conversation
Remain calm, remember it is just a game. It is important to be a good sport and congratulate the winner.
Which team did Shaquille O’Neal win his first NBA championship with?
What are the Los Angeles Lakers?