Name that Social Skill
Name that Social Que
Is this a Boundary?
"Say It The Right Way"
What Would You Do?
100

You tell the truth, even when it’s hard.
Choices: A) Respect B) Honesty C) Teamwork

Answer: Honesty

100

A person steps back when you get close.
Choices: A) Wants more space B) Wants a hug C) Playing around

Answer: Wants more space

100

You give someone a hug even though they said they don’t want one.
Choices: A) Yes B) No C) Sometimes

Answer: No

100

“What should you say when you make a mistake?”

“I’m sorry” / “That was my fault”

100

Someone accidentally bumps into you and doesn’t say sorry. What should you do?

Stay calm and ignore it OR say, “It’s okay” (don’t get upset)

200

You say “I’m sorry” after making a mistake.
Choices: A) Cooperation B) Apologizing C) Confidence

Answer: Apologizing

200

Someone is nodding while you talk.
Choices: A) Not listening B) Listening/Agreeing C) Upset

Answer: Listening/Agreeing

200

You invite a friend to hang out but they say “not today.”
Choices: A) Yes B) No C) Sometimes

Answer: Yes (respecting their choice is the boundary)

200

You interrupted someone. What should you say?

“I’m sorry for interrupting” / “Go ahead, you can finish”

200

Your friend looks upset but won’t talk. What’s a good response?

Say, “I’m here if you want to talk” / Give them space but show you care

300

You stay calm when something doesn’t go your way.
Choices: A) Self-control B) Humor C) Leadership

Answer: Self-control

300

A friend turns their body away while you’re talking.
Choices: A) Engaged B) Not interested C) Happy

Answer: Not interested

300

You continue joking with a friend after the say "stop"/ walk away.

Choices: A) Yes B) No 

Answer: No

300

Someone is bothering you. What’s a respectful way to respond?

“Please stop” / “I don’t like that”

300

You accidentally hurt someone’s feelings. What should you do?

Apologize and try to make it right

400

You notice your tone of voice might sound rude and fix it.
Choices: A) Self-awareness B) Humor C) Leadership

Answer: Self-awareness

400

A classmate is sighing loudly and rolling their eyes.
Choices: A) Excited B) Frustrated/Annoyed C) Confused

Answer: Frustrated/Annoyed

400

"Please give me space to calm down" Choices: A) Yes B) No

Answer: Yes

400

You need help but feel frustrated. What should you say?

“Can you help me, please?” / “I’m having trouble”

400

You feel really angry during class. What’s a good choice?

Take deep breaths / Ask for a break / Use calming strategies

500

You think before you act when you’re upset.
Choices: A) Self control B) Creativity C) Independence


Answer: Self control

500

You use “I feel…” statements instead of blaming.
Choices: A) Communication B) Solving Problems C) Both A & B

Answer: Both A & B

500

I'm going to take a break. 

Choices: A) Yes B) No 

Answer: Yes 

500

Instead of saying “That’s dumb,” how can you respectfully disagree?

“I don’t agree” / “I see it differently

500

Instead of saying “You’re wrong,” what could you say?

“I think something different” / “Can we check that?”

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