FRIENDS & CONVERSATION
Give an example of one good way to start a conversation with someone new.
Hi, how are you? / What’s your name? / How’s your day?
What does being “on time” mean?
Arriving at the scheduled time or early.
What should ALWAYS you do when you sneeze or cough in public?
Cover your nose/mouth
If someone is smiling and asking questions in a conversation, do they likely want to talk?
Yes! If someone is smiling and asking questions during a conversation, they are letting you know they want to keep talking.
What does self-advocacy mean?
Speaking up for your needs respectfully
If someone tells you they love music, what could you ask next?
What kind of music do you like? / Who do you listen to?
What should you do if you don’t understand directions?
Ask for help or clarification.
If you need help finding something in a store, who can you ask?
An employee / worker
True of False: If someone has headphones on, they may not want to talk.
True - If someone has headphones on, they may want to have some privacy or quiet time.
What is something you can say if you need help?
Can you help me please? / I need help with this / Can you assist me with this? / I'm not sure what to do.
True or False: Talking only about yourself helps build friendships.
False. Friendships are built on common interests. We find out common interests by taking turns talking.
What should you do if you finish your work early?
Ask for another task / check if anything else is needed.
What should you do while waiting in line?
Wait your turn, give space, be patient
If a person keeps looking at the clock, what might it mean?
They are busy / need to leave
What can you say if it is too loud?
It’s too loud, can I move? / Can I take a break? / Can I put on my headphones?
What is a follow-up question?
A follow-up question is a question asked after an initial answer to get more information, clarify details, or dive deeper into a topic. It builds on the previous conversation, rather than starting a new topic.
For example:
Friend A (First Question): What is your favorite movie?
Friend B: My favorite movie is Star Wars.
Friend A (Follow-up Question): Why is Star Wars your favorite movie?
What should you do if you are sick and cannot make it to work?
Contact supervisor/boss and tell them you are sick and cannot come to work.
If someone bumps into you by accident, what could you say?
It’s okay / Excuse me
Why is body language important?
It gives clues about feelings and can let other's know if someone is interested or uninterested
What can you say if you need more time?
I need more time please / Could I have a few more minutes? / I'm still working
Name two signs someone may not want to talk right now.
Looking away, short answers, walking away, headphones in, distracted
Name one topic that may be INAPPROPRIATE at work.
Personal drama, insults, private topics, rude jokes
What could you say to the server if your food order is wrong?
"Excuse me, I think my order might be wrong" / "I think there was a mistake" / "Excuse me, I don't think this is my order"
Name two signs a conversation should end.
Someone is walking away, giving short answers, checking phone, looks distracted
Why is self-advocacy important?
Self advocacy helps others understand our needs. It also supports our independence and success.