Think it or Say it
Your friend is excited to show you their new haircut but you don't like it at all.
Do you think it or say it?
Think it! You can have an opinion that isn't the same without making your friend feel bad.
One of your teachers is talking to another student.
Should you ask them a question now? Why or Why not?
Not right now.
When someone is already having a conversation, they won't be able to listen to you. Wait for them to finish up and then ask!
A classmate of yours is crying nearby.
What might they be feeling?
How many hours do you come to IOP for group a day?
3 hours a day!
One of your classmates beats you in a game. You really want to tell them you are "better than them anyway!"
Do you think it or say it?
Think it!
Everyone wins and loses sometimes and that's okay! Next time you might be the one to win.
A friend is on the phone as you walk over to them. They get off the phone to look and smile at you.
Should you start a conversation with them?
Yes! Someone shows they are interested in talking when they look at you. Greet them and start a conversation.
A classmate gets up to present to the class and their hands and voice are shaky.
What might they be feeling?
Anxious, Nervous or Scared.
What does I.O.P stand for?
Intensive Outpatient Program
Your best friend laughed at you when you fell in front of the class and it hurt your feelings.
Do you think it or say it?
Say it! "When you laughed at me, it really hurt my feelings"
It is your responsibility to tell others how you feel. Real friends care about your feelings!
You go to the store to buy a new game. When you are in line the cashier says "hello".
Do you greet them?
Yes! They are starting a conversation with you when they greet you. Respond back and be friendly!
Your sibling scored a goal for their soccer team and are jumping in the air with their team.
What might they be feeling?
They might be excited, joyful, proud, or happy!
Who is taller Ms. Libby or Ms. Heather?
Ms Libby!
A family member got you a gift that you hate for your birthday. "I hate this gift!"
Do you think it or say it?
Think it!
Someone got you a gift, be grateful for what they gave you.
A stranger says excuse me as they are walking by you at the store.
Do you greet them?
No, this stranger is being polite as they are walking by. This scenario tells us they don't want to start a conversation.
When you approach a classmate to ask them a question, they take a step back.
What might they be thinking or feeling?
They might need more space. Let them have more space and see if they still can talk.
What is "rec" short for?
Recreation!
A teacher asks you to do something, but you don't understand what to do.
Do you think it or say it?
Say It!
"Can you help me understand this better?"
Clarifying what someone says is important for communication.
A friend in IOP is sharing a personal experience with the group, but you really want to say something.
Do you say it now?
NOOOOOO. Someone is sharing something with the group, that is hard. Be respectful and wait till its your turn.
You are really excited to tell a parent about some exciting news! When you are talking, they start looking at their phone.
What might you be feeling?
When someone is talking, you should be looking at them. When someone gets distracted, it can make someone feel ignored or hurt.
Make eye contact with others when you can.
How many years has Mr. Caleb been able to juggle?
11 years!!
Since 2015!