Better Response
Teacher says "stop Talking."
Say "ok", get back to your classwork, ask to move seats so you can concentrate.
Student rolls their eyes at the teacher.
you get a warning or a phone call home.
Pen explodes --> you start yelling
ask to wash your hands and get a new pen and paper.
“Whatever.”
"Alright"
Someone shoves you into another classmate
Friend keeps annoying you in class, throwing pencils, kicking your chair, pulling on your shirt.
Politely ask them to stop, take a break, let the teacher know, ask to move away from your friend.
Student argues with the teacher and calls them stupid.
You earn a referral.
Friend sits somewhere else for lunch --> you tell them they are horrible and walk away mad.
Say ok and sit with other friends.
"Get away from me!"
"Can I take a break? I need a minute to be alone"
Friend ignores you
Ask them if they are alright or go talk to another friend.
You lose a classroom game and feel frustarted.
Use a self-regulation technique, ask for a break, find a safe adult.
Student does something wrong and says "okay" and fixes their behavior.
They get a warning and are able to remain in class and finish their work.
Get a question wrong --> Flip the desk and storm out.
Ask if you can try again.
“That’s not fair!”
"I'm sorry, i will stop"
A group member not doing their work
Ask them nicely to take part in what the group is doing or tell a teacher what is going on
Someone pushes you into a locker and you fall to the ground and smash your chromebook.
Speak with an adult about the incident, pick up your chrome-book and tell a teacher about what happened.
Student walks out of class after cursing out the entire class.
P1 called, ISS, and your parents need to have a meeting with the school.
Teacher says you earned a warning for being off task.
Quietly say "ok" and get back to work.
“This is stupid”
"I don't understand this, could you help me?"
Someone makes a joke about you
Explain that it hurt your feelings or use "When you..., I felt..., I'd prefer..." statement
The teacher sends you out of the classroom and tells you you earned a referral for something someone else did.
Speak to the teacher privately and calmy after class, ask to speak with a safe adult instead of getting super frustrated.
You get an answer wrong in front of the class.
You try again and move on.
You’re joking with friends and someone makes a joke about you that actually bothers you. You snap back at them and start going back and forth in front of everyone.
Tell them it hurt your feelings and to please stop saying that kind of stuff.
"You're stupid, shut up"
"Please leave me alone for right now"
You’re playing a game in gym or at lunch and you think someone cheated or made a bad call. Other people are starting to argue about it.
Tell them it is just a game and we should just have fun or get the teacher involved