Conflict 101
Life Skills
Target Practice
Body Language
+ or - Social Skills
100
T or F - Conflict is always a bad thing
F
100
Be calm and stay in control. Stay focused on what you are trying to say.
What is MINDFULNESS
100
"a sharp, bitter, or cutting expression or remark"
What is sarcasm
100
the best way to show with your eyes that you are listening
What is eye contact
100

You are willing to be flexible with plans and will sometimes change your plans depending on what the group wants to do

What is positive, agreeable, adaptable, understanding, and willing to compromise? 

200
When should you try to avoid conflict?
When you might get in trouble, when it is not a safety issue, when it will damage the relationship, etc
200
Be willing to compromise, offer and look for alternatives
What is NEGOTIATE
200

A person who watches something negative happen but does not do or say anything about it.

What is a bystander 

200

an action that may show that you are bored with the other person or that you are too tired to pay attention

What is yawning

200

You tell everyone exactly what you are thinking without caring about their feeling - "hey, you're just being honest!"

What are negative social skills, lack of self-control, and not being thoughtful? 

300
How can conflict be helpful?
New ideas, change opinions, can bring up a new POV, shows you are flexible
300
Explain the facts of a situation - don't add judgment or attitude.
What is DESCRIBE
300
stop someone from saying/doing something by saying or doing something yourself
What is to interrupt
300
This activity done with your arms might show that you are defensive or on edge
What is crossing your arms
300

You try to compliment people when you see the opportunity

What are positive social skills, being thoughtful, kind and understanding. A good friend.  

400
This tone of voice should be avoided when trying to solve a problem
What is yelling
400

Ask for what you want directly and clearly. Don't expect someone to read your mind!

What is ASSERT YOURSELF or HAVE CLEAR COMMUNICATION 

400
to influence or intimidate someone
What is bully
400
This cue, usually done when sitting, is a sign that you are listening and interested and want to hear more
What is leaning forward in your chair
400

You always run to the front of the line whenever food or prizes are being handed out so you can get first pick

What is negative social skills. You're being selfish, putting yourself before others, and not considering others. 

500

T or F Walking away from conflict means you have lost

False

500

Reward the person for listening to you - say thank you for taking time out of their busy day

What is THANKFULNESS and APPRECIATION 

500
the physical area immediately surrounding someone. to enter this area feels threatening or uncomfortable
What is personal space
500
This action (with your eyes) shows the other person that you are annoyed, frustrated, or don't believe what they are saying.
What is rolling your eyes
500

You often make fun of and roast people behind their backs so the "popular" kids will laugh and think you're funny

What is negative social skills. Unkind, not cool, trying to fit in for the wrong reasons. You're too focused on trying to fit in, you compromise your dignity. You care too much what others think of you. 

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