Bullying
True or False: Purposely leaving someone out of a game or keeping other friends from talking to them is social bullying.
True. You're hurting their reputation intentionally which is social (relational) bullying.
True or False: saying I'm sorry is giving a good apology.
No, just saying I'm sorry isn't a good apology how will they know what you are sorry for.
True or False: When a friend judges or criticizes you, values your friendship, and keeps your secrets they are being a good friend.
False, a friend shouldn't judge or criticize you.
True.
True or False: I'm respecting my friends' boundaries by continuing to call them little buddy even though they've asked me to stop.
False. You should stop calling them a name if they've asked you to stop.
What is Bullying? *Remember it involves 3 key things.
Intentional or repetitive unwanted or aggressive behavior from someone who is trying to upset or harm you. Also involves some sort of power imbalance.
If I apologize for making fun of someone at school because the principal made me but continue to make fun of them every day for the next week, was my apology meaningful?
No, apologizing but not changing the behavior doesn't make the apology meaningful.
What are 2 qualities that make a friend toxic/bad?
They are jealous of your achievements or other friends or have a short temper/want to win arguments. Other examples include they can't be trusted and doubt everything you say.
What does it mean to be kind?
Being friendly, generous, or considerate.
What are two types of boundaries?
There are physical, emotional, and time boundaries.
What are the three types of bullying?
Relational (social), Physical, and Verbal.
Why is it important to make amends?
It can help repair or make up for any wrong you might have done, helps to maintain healthy relationships, and shows compassion towards others.
I told miss Olivia one of my secrets and she came to school the next day and told all of the other teachers. Was she a good or bad friend?
Bad/Toxic friend
How do you show kindness?
Using a calm tone of voice, holding a door, smiling/waving, donating or giving gifts, or being mindful of others feelings.
My friend keeps poking, shoving, or throwing things at me and it's making me uncomfortable. How could I set a boundary politely asking them stop.
Please stop touching and throwing things at me, it's making me uncomfortable, and I feel unsafe.
What are some ways to stop bullying? (I need at least 2 ways for full points)
Speak to a trusted adult. Tell the bully to stop, ONLY if it is safe to do so. Offer support to any friends or peers who are being bullied. Know what bullying is and looks like to help stop or prevent it from happening.
How would I give a meaningful apology if I took my siblings Lego set and broke it?
Good friend. Good friends celebrate your successes and don't get jealous.
What are 3 ways to show respect?
Apologizing when you're wrong, using active listening, or trying to understand others.
Other examples: showing empathy towards differences, finding common ground, or showing gratitude.
What are two boundaries Ms. Bria has in the adapt room?
Respect, take accountability, and be willing to try new things.
What is the difference between being a bully and just being mean?
It depends on intention. If you intentionally are trying to upset someone you're being a bully. If you accidentally make a comment, you're being mean.
What are the steps to giving a meaningful apology?
1: Saying I'm sorry for ____
2: It was wrong because/explain why it was wrong
3: Is there anything I can do to make it up.
What are 3 qualities of a good friend?
They celebrate your successes, don't get jealous, and are caring. They may also accept that you have other friends, keep your secrets, and know the importance of not spending every minute together.
What is the definition of Respect?
Treat others how you want to be treated OR treating others in a way that shows you care about their well-being.
What are boundaries and what do they help us do?
Boundaries are like bubbles or limits we set for how we would like to be treated. They help us to build and maintain healthy relationships and help us to feel safe and respected.