Communication Skills
What is one way to show someone you are listening?
Looking toward them, nodding, responding appropriately, asking questions, etc.
True or False:
It is okay to feel sad.
True
True or False:
Yelling usually helps solve conflicts.
False
Name two qualities of a good friend.
Kind, honest, respectful, helpful, etc.
If someone is crying, how might they be feeling?
Sad, frustrated, hurt, overwhelmed, etc.
Name two conversation topics you can use when meeting someone new.
Hobbies, pets, favorite foods, movies, sports, school, etc.
Name one coping skill you can use when feeling frustrated.
Deep breathing, asking for a break, counting, talking to someone, etc.
Your friend wants to play Uno, and you want Hangman. What can you do?
Play both, take turns choosing, etc.
What can you do if someone is sitting alone?
Invite them to join, talk to them, check on them.
You accidentally interrupt someone. How might they feel?
Annoyed, frustrated, ignored, etc.
You ask someone about their favorite movie. They answer. What should you do next?
Ask another related question or make a comment about their answer.
You lose a game and feel upset. What is one coping strategy you could use?
Take deep breaths, count to ten, etc. (Any appropriate coping skill)
What should you do before trying to solve a problem with someone?
Example: Someone is upset with you, and you don't know why.
Stay calm and listen.
Name one quality of a bad friend.
Mean, lies to you, bosses you around, ignores you, etc.
Why might two people see the same situation differently?
Different experiences, feelings, beliefs, preferences, etc.
What is a follow-up question?
A question related to what someone just said.
What are two signs your body might show when you're becoming frustrated?
Clenched fists, fast heartbeat, tense muscles, raised voice, etc.
What is a compromise?
A solution where both people give a little
What should you do if a friend says "No" to inviting them to hang out?
Respect their answer. Do something else by yourself, or ask another friend.
What does perspective mean?
Answer: Someone else's thoughts, feelings, or point of view.
Role Play: Start a conversation with someone sitting next to you.
Any appropriate conversation starter.
Role Play: Show a coping strategy without speaking.
If the group or the RBT guesses correctly, you get the point!
Role Play: A friend accidentally bumps into you. Show an appropriate response.
Calm communication.
Role Play:
Show how you would invite someone to join an activity.
Appropriate invitation. Ex: "After school, do you want to play soccer with me?"
Role Play:
Sara's best friend is moving far away. How do you think Sara feels and what are two things you can suggest as ways for her to stay in touch.
Sad, upset, etc.
She could call, facetime, email, or visit during school breaks.