Random Social Skills
Verbal Elements
Feedback
Verbal Boundaries
Physical Boundaries
100
We show we are LISTENING when our eyes are...
Looking at the person speaking
100
This is how LOUD or soft we speak.
VOLUME
100
What is feedback?
Feedback is letting another person know how we feel about their actions or words and how it effected us.
100
What are VERBAL BOUNDARIES?
Verbal boundaries are the limits on what information we share with others, our levels of disclosure.
100
What are PHYSICAL BOUNDARIES?
Physical boundaries are the limits on how much touch we allow with different types of people and situations.
200
There are how many states of mind?
3!!
200
What is the word we use to describe HOW we say something to someone (like nicely or sarcastically)?
TONE
200
When other people give us feedback, we need to be able to...
ACCEPT THE FEEDBACK!
200
What is a LOW level of disclosure?
Low level of disclosure is not sharing any personal information. This might be talking about the weather or asking if the bus has arrived yet.
200
What is ATHLETIC TOUCH?
Athletic touch is touch that happens during a game or sport. For example, tackling someone when playing football.
300
We show that we are LISTENING when our brain is...
THINKING ABOUT WHAT IS BEING SAID
300
How fast or slow we speak is called...
PACE
300
True or False: You can understand a person's view without agreeing with them.
TRUE! This is part of accepting feedback. We can understand what they are saying and the reasons why, but it doesn't mean we have to feel that way.
300
What is an acquaintance?
An acquaintance is someone that we know, but not very well. For example, we know that a peer is in our science class, but don't know anything besides that.
300
What is CARING TOUCH?
Caring touch is a way people try to show they care about us or want to help us. For example, if you fall and someone helps you up.
400
What is a boundary?
A boundary is a limit.
400
What is PRONUNCIATION?
Pronunciation is how we say all the letters and syllables in words.
400
How do we word our feedback to others?
"I feel _____ when ______. Next time, please _______."
400
David is feeling sad and calls his best friend Terrence to talk about it. What level of disclosure would he use?
He would use a HIGH level of disclosure to talk about his personal feelings because Terrence is a good friend.
400
Do your boundaries ever change?
YES! Boundaries change all the time. We may not feel like being touched one day and be ok the next. Maybe we didn't like to hug someone we didn't know well before, but now that they are our friend, we feel more comfortable.
500
Name the states of mind.
Emotional, wise, reasonable
500
Additives are when we ...
Add words such as UMS, AHS, or LIKES when we speak
500
Jane was telling her friends about her weekend. Brian kept interrupting her story, asking questions or adding details. Jane felt frustrated that Brian kept interrupting. How can Jane give Brian feedback?
"Brian, I feel frustrated when you keep interrupting me when I'm talking. Next time, can you please wait until I finish speaking?"
500
Maria and her cousins were watching movies. They started talking about what their favorite movies were. What level of disclosure is this?
This is a MEDIUM level of disclosure. Even though Maria is talking to her family members, she's not sharing very personal information, so it is only medium.
500
What do you do when you don't feel comfortable with how someone touches you?
Give them feedback if you feel comfortable and tell a trusted adult!
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