Showing Interest in Others
Using a friendly face and voice
What is step 1 of showing interest in others?
Stopping, taking a breath, and letting it go.
Thinking of a way everyone can do part of what they want, doing each idea, taking turns, giving up part of what everyone wants, and doing something different.
Keeping a friendly face and voice, taking a deep breathing and staying calm
What are the first two steps of being a good sport?
Staying calm, thinking this is a problem, what is happening here, and sorting out the problem.
Look at others
What is step 2 of showing interest in others?
Thinking "what is happening here?", making a plan and remembering there is more than one right away and always another way.
What are the last three steps to being flexible?
Using a friendly face and voice, exchanging suggestions, coming to an agreement, and doing it.
What are steps 2 -5 of compromising/
Thinking I am disappointed, but can handle this and making a plan.
Thinking of different ways to manage a problem, trying the best way, and choosing another way if the first way doesn't work.
What are steps 3 -6 of dealing with a problem?
Asking questions or commenting about
What the person is doing
What the person is thinking
How the person is feeling
What is step 3 of showing interest in others?
Brains are flexible.
When do you need to use flexible thinking?
Finding a way that allows everyone to get some of what they want
What does compromise mean?
Game, contest, competition
What is aport?
When something does not go as you expect.
What is a problem?
Being police, making friends and showing thoughtfulness.
Why is it important to show people you are interested in them?
Getting stuck on what you want to do
What is rigid or rock brain thinking?
There are lots of ways to compromise
What is an example of compromising?
Congratulating other plays, letting others go first, shaking hands
What are some ways to show you are a good sport?
What was a problem you had to deal wtih?
Successful friendships are equal.
Being willing to do what others want to do
What is flexible thinking?
Give an example of a time you compromised.
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Disappointment happens when thinks don't work out like you planned or wanted.
When are some times that you were disappointed?
Dealing with a problem is like solving a puzzle.
What are some difficult problems you dealt with that felt like putting a puzzle together?