what is body language? (also called non verbal communication)
communicating your feelings with no words
examples: posture, facial expression, etc.
True or false: Verbal communication is always easy.
False! Sometimes it can be hard to describe what we're feeling and that's ok!
What does Rock Brain try to do to people?
Rock Brain tries to make people get stuck on their ideas. 
a good tool to use when you are frustrated with school work is?
A. rip up your school work
B. use a fidget/take deep breaths
C. get mad at the teacher and leave the room
B.
True or false.....A flexible thinker likes to try new things, accepts other peoples ideas and is fun to play with?
True!
Give an example of how you might non-verbally communicate with a friend.
high fives, elbow bumps, smiles, handshake, relaxed body language, etc.
What is an I-message or statement?
Statements that can help you take responsibility for how you feel ("I feel ____ when ___ happen")
What are some superflex strategies to defeat Rock Brain?
Use self-talk to help you remember that being part of a group means you can't always do it your way. You can also take deep breaths or count to ten.
which tool is good to use at school if you're so mad you're about to lose control?
A. yell as loud as you can
B. walk out of the classroom
C. Ask if you can take a break

C.
Ben is playing a game on the iPad. When the teacher says to put the ipads away Ben continues to play and gets upset when the teacher tells him to put it away. Is Ben showing rigid or flexible thinking?
Rigid thinking
How can we tell Riley is happy?
she's dancing, smiling, enjoying her music!
name a strategy that would help someone who feels sad?
ask if they are ok and if they want to talk, maybe give them space, help cheer them up, etc.
If my friend wants to play tag and I really want to play with them but I refuse to play tag and get upset when they play tag without me... what type of thinking is this?
What is inflexible or rigid thinking
What is a trigger?
Something we don't like and might make us feel mad, sad, or upset
Instead of saying "I can't do this" a flexible thinker could say____________.
"I can do this" or "I am going to keep trying".
How do we think he is feeling?
maybe tired, sad, or doesn't feel good. Can tell this by seeing his hand on his face and the other around his stomach, facial expression appears sad
How might rock brain get you stuck on in a conversation?
Stuck on the same topic, being unaware of other person's feelings, not working to solve the problem.
Besides conversations, how can rock brain effect us with a different social skill?
Compromising- not being able to let our option go or being stuck on one option or thing you want
name some helpful tools that Mr. Incredible could have used
walked away for a bit, problem solved to to close the door before breaking it, deep breathing, etc.
what is compromising?
problem solving a solution to makes supports everyone's needs.
Describe the difference between positive body language and negative body language.
Positive: eye contact, calm body, facing someone, etc.
Negative: folded arms, tense face, no eye contact, not facing someone, etc.
What are some steps to resolve conflict?
voice your concerns (respectfully/calmly)
Listen to the others
communicate solutions (compromising)
I really want to have a race with my friend but they want to play kick ball. I see Rock Brain is trying to take over but I don't want to be left playing by myself, HOW CAN I DEFEAT ROCK BRAIN?
use flexible thinking and play what my friend wants to play OR come up with a compromise
How can you tell you need to use a coping tool?
When you start to feel like you are losing control of yourself or your emotions. (Before losing control)

examples of flexible and rigid thinking?
-flexible thinking because Riley is sad dad has to work but could get pizza with mom!
-rigid thinking cause Riley doesnt like the pizza