Listening
When listening, give the speaker appropriate eye ___________________.
Contact
B stands for . . .
behavior
True or False
A trigger is when we shoot a gun.
False
It is something that causes us to feel angry or stressed.
True or False
A teacher is an authority figure.
True
True or False
Body Cues show others that you are doing your work.
False
Body cues are ways your body shows that you are feeling stressed or angry.
Lean ________ to show interest in what is being said.
forward
C stands for . . .
consequence
What is an external trigger?
Somethings that happens to us
it happens outside our body.
Step 2 says that you should "Stay _________".
Calm
narrow eyes
clenched fists
sweat
heavy breathing
red face
What are two phrases you can say to let the speaker know you are listening?
Uh-huh
oh yah?
Really?
Hmmm....
That's interesting.
A stands for . . .
antecedent
What is an internal trigger?
something we say to ourselves that increases our anger
It is our thoughts.
Inside our head.
Think about the __________________ of not following the decision.
consequences
Name 3 internal body cues.
stomach ache
head ache
fast heart rate
feeling hot
Give the speaker your full ______________. Do not do ___________things at once.
attention
two
What is a consequence?
something that happens after a behavior
can be positive or negative
can affect other people
Give an example of a verbal trigger.
calling names
you suck
I hate you
calling you a rude name
swearing
Respond by saying _____ and using appropriate ________ language.
ok
body
Explain external body cues.
Body cues that others can see.
Why should you use Listening Skills?
Name at least 2 reasons.
People might like talking to you more.
You hear and understand information that you need.
You learn more.
You may be more successful at following directions.
You may make a good impression.
A behavior is how a person acts when they become frustrated or upset.
True or False
How a person acts can be blamed on the antecedent.
False
People can decide how to act.
Give an example of a nonverbal trigger.
someone pushed you
someone flipped you off
tapping a pencil
fire alarm
Give 2 reasons why you should accept no appropriately.
you may build a positive reputation
you may avoid a negative consequence
you can feel proud
you can make a mature decision
Explain internal body cues.
Body cues that only you can feel because it is happening to you, inside of you.