Feelings
You are playing basketball and accidentally get hit by the ball, what do you do?
It was an accident, tell them that it is okay, accidents happen.
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
You can listen to them, offer support, try to cheer them up
Staff requests you complete your laundry but you are busy watching TV.
Take breaths, take a break, think about another time you will be able to watch TV.
You are playing a game when your parents tell you it's time to clean your room. What should you do?
Stop playing, go clean your room and come back to the game, etc.
Are compliments positive or negative?
Positive!
What might you feel if someone you are trying to talk to is ignoring you?
Sad, confused, or upset
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Apologize, say sorry, and listen
What should you do if you are getting answers wrong during a group game and you're beginning to feel upset and disappointed?
Ask if you can take a break; take deep breaths; talk to your staff or facilitator about it; use encouraging self-talk in your head
True or False. When someone says you did something wrong they are being mean.
False- most of the time when someone tells you that you have done something wrong they are only trying to help you.
Thank them and give them a compliment too!
How would you feel if you were having a private conversation with the doctor and a peer kept interrupting?
Angry, irritated, like you had no privacy.
A peer is upset and is talking to staff, they ask you to give them some space. What should you do?
Move away from peer and staff.
What can you do if you are feeling frustrated?
Talk to staff. Use one of your coping skills. What coping skill???
Why is it important to stay on topic during a conversation?
It shows you are interested and shows respect.
Pick a staff member and give them a compliment.
Say something nice to your staff
How might someone feel if someone made fun of you?
Furious, angry, sad, annoyed.
A peer offers you food from their tray, what should you do?
Say no thank you, you are not permitted to share food.
A friend has said something that hurts your feelings. What can you do?
Tell them how you feel with a nice voice and explain why. Avoid yelling at them.
A peer tries to involve you in their business, what should you do?
Walk away, suggest they talk to staff for help.
Compliments should be genuine, true or false?
True!
True or False- you should never be angry
False. It is ok to feel any feeling you feel. But how you express those feelings has to be appropriate
What is an example of how you could introduce yourself to someone you don't know?
"Hi, my name is ____________. What is your name?"
What is the best way to deal with a friend that keeps talking over you? You should:
a) talk over them
b) leave angry
c) ask them to allow you to finish your thought
C) ask them to allow you to finish your thought
You notice a peer is left out, what can you do?
Invite them to play a game or talk to them.
When a compliment you should:
a) make eye contact
b) say something genuine
c) be positive
d) all of the above
d) all of the above