Name an example of an expected behavior
Listening, Honesty, Clean up after self, Respect belongings
Name an example of an unexpected behavior
Inappropriate language, Interrupting, Fighting, Yelling
Do our behaviors impact the feelings of those around us?
Yes. Our behaviors can impact the feelings of those around us.
Can communication impact mood of others? How?
Yes! The words we say and information we share can impact how others feel and how they respond
EX: listening when someone is talking
What do you call a fake noodle?
An imPASTA
Name an expected behavior at school
Walk, Stay in seat, Pay attention, Raise hand
Name an unexpected behavior at school
Not listening, Interrupting, Being on device, Out of seat, Rolling in chair
Name 3 emotions you feel when you observe unexpected behaviors
Frustration, Uncomfortable, Upset, Stress
What is active listening?
Making the choice to listen, understand what they are saying, and retain (keep) the information being shared
Remember- the difference between listen and hear
EX: Asking Q"s, eye contact, nodding, facing the speaker
What is the most stolen food?
Cheese!
Name an expected behavior outside of school
Look both ways before crossing street, Respectful, Responsible
Name an unexpected behavior outside of school
Talking loud, Interrupting, Cutting in line, Being dishonest
Name 3 emotions you feel when you observe expected behaviors
Happy, Proud, Comfortable, Content
What is passive listening?
Hearing someone speak, without giving full attention. This is opposite of active listening
EX: Interrupting, no eye contact, thinking about other things, looking around
Why don't eggs tell each other jokes?
They would CRACK each other up
How do expected behaviors make us feel?
Content, happy, pleased, regulated
What do unexpected behaviors make us feel?
Dysregulated, upset, annoyed
Demonstrate 1 emotion you feel when you observe unexpected behaviors
Frustration, Uncomfortable, Upset, Stress
Demonstrate active listening
Asking questions when needed/making comments
Listen with body (body language)
Turn towards them
Nodding
Make eye contact
Not interrupting
Go do this!
Find 3 green things in the room
What is the definition of expected behavior?
HIDDEN RULES in every situation, that we expect others to follow. We observe others doing/we do ourselves. These are also called social rules
What is the definition of unexpected behavior?
Not following set of rules hidden or stated
Demonstrate 1 emotion you feel when you observe expected behaviors
Happy, Proud, Comfortable, Content
Demonstrate passive listening
Not responding to the conversation
Not making eye contact
Showing disinterest
Thinking about other things
Yawning, looking around
What color are all kittens eyes?
Blue