Expected Behaviors
Unexpected Behaviors
Behaviors & Impacting Emotions
Communication
For Fun
100

Name an example of an expected behavior

Listening, Honesty, Clean up after self, Respect belongings 

100

Name an example of an unexpected behavior

Inappropriate language, Interrupting, Fighting, Yelling 

100

Do our behaviors impact the feelings of those around us? 

Yes. Our behaviors can impact the feelings of those around us. 

100

Can communication impact mood of others? How?

Yes! The words we say and information we share can impact how others feel and how they respond

EX: listening when someone is talking  

100

What do you call a fake noodle?

An imPASTA

200

Name an expected behavior at school

Walk, Stay in seat, Pay attention, Raise hand


200

Name an unexpected behavior at school

Not listening, Interrupting, Being on device, Out of seat, Rolling in chair 

200

Name 3 emotions you feel when you observe unexpected behaviors

Frustration, Uncomfortable, Upset, Stress 

200

What is active listening?

Making the choice to listen, understand what they are saying, and retain (keep) the information being shared

Remember- the difference between listen and hear

EX: Asking Q"s, eye contact, nodding, facing the speaker 

200

Summer is almost here! What would be your dream vacation? 

Thanks for sharing! 
300

What can you do when you see someone doing an expected behavior

tell them good job, encourage them to continue postive beahviors

300

What can you do when others engage in unexpected behaviors?

ignore them, ask them to stop, tell an adult, do not follow in their footsteps.

300

Name 3 emotions you feel when you observe expected behaviors

Happy, Proud, Comfortable, Content


300

Give an example of using an I message to communicate your feelings

I feel_____ when you _____. I would like ______

great job! 

300

Why don't eggs tell each other jokes?

They would CRACK each other up

400

How do expected behaviors make us feel?

Content, happy, pleased, regulated

400

What do unexpected behaviors make us feel?

Dysregulated, upset, annoyed

400

Demonstrate 1 emotion you feel when you observe unexpected behaviors

Frustration, Uncomfortable, Upset, Stress 

    

400

Why does yelling at someone not work?

Yelling is an unexpected behavior. There are healthier ways to communicate negative feelings such as using an I statement

400

Go do this!

Find 3 green things in the room 

500

Why should be engage in expected behaviors?

Expected behaviors make others feel safe and happy, we are making good decisions even when upset, we are using coping skills to help us feel better, there are no consequences for expected behaviors


500

Why should we not engage in unexpected behaviors

Others feel unsafe, uncomfortable. There are consequences, we are not using coping skills to help us make good choices 

500

Demonstrate 1 emotion you feel when you observe expected behaviors

Happy, Proud, Comfortable, Content

500

Why is it hard to sometimes communicate our feelings in the moment?

When angry or upset, we may say things that are not true or hurtful. Using coping skills first can help us feel more calm and we are able to better talk about our feelings 

500

Go do this!

Find your favorite fidget toy and show me! 

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