Say it or not!
People Files
Expected
Unexpected
Big deal or not?
100
Define Social Filter
The tool in our brain we use to keep unexpected thoughts in and let expected thoughts out.
100
Define Social Wonders
Questions we ask other people to get information about their likes, dislikes, and life.
100
Give 2 examples of expected behaviors for doing chores at home.
1) Doing it without someone reminding you to 2) Do the chore immediately when reminded to do so 3) Stay focused until the chore is finished 4) Take your time and do a good job
100
List 2 examples of unexpected behaviors for doing chores at home.
-When told to do so, say "NO" or "I'll do it later" -Yell at parents -Play instead of doing the chore -Start chore and then get distracted and not finish it -Tell your parent the chore is done, when it's not -Rush through the chore -Leave the house when you know you're supposed to do the chore -Have your sibling do the chore
100
List 2 examples of small problems
Mom tells you "no" to more iPad, you trip, time to clean up, etc.
200
Do or don't? Your mom tells you that it is time to wash the dishes, and you say, "I'm not doing that."
Don't! What could you say instead?
200
What is Kelsey's favorite color?
Blue
200
BONUS: Provide 2 more examples of expected behaviors for doing chores at home?
1) Doing it without someone reminding you to 2) Do the chore immediately when reminded to do so 3) Stay focused until the chore is finished 4) Take your time and do a good job
200
List 2 more examples of unexpected behaviors for doing chores at home.
-When told to do so, say "NO" or "I'll do it later" -Yell at parents -Play instead of doing the chore -Start chore and then get distracted and not finish it -Tell your parent the chore is done, when it's not -Rush through the chore -Leave the house when you know you're supposed to do the chore -Have your sibling do the chore
200
Identify 2 examples of medium problems
A broken arm, a flat tire on a car, bully, etc.
300
Your teacher tells you it's time to do desk work and you say, "Ok."
Say it! What's an example of an unexpected response?
300
Come up with a social wonder question you could ask to gain information about someone in conversation?
What school do you go to, what do you like to do in your free time, did you have a good weekend, do you like movies, etc.
300
How do expected behaviors make others feel?
Happy, proud, relaxed/calm, and relieved
300
When you do chores in an unexpected way, how does it make others feel?
Upset, frustrated, tense, hurt, stressed
300
Identify 2 examples of large problems
House is on fire, someone dies, you have to get surgery, etc.
400
What is something expected to say about a person's halloween costume that you don't like?
"Cool costume" or "I can tell you like______"
400
What type of pet does Ms. Sam have?
Cat (Dexter)
400
What consequences do you experience when you do chores in an expected manner?
House will look clean, parents will give you compliments and have good thoughts about you, you might get an allowance, may be allowed to go out and play with friends, you will have more time to play, and parents might help you
400
What consequences might you experience if you do chores in an unexpected manner?
House will be dirty or untidy, family members will have uncomfortable thoughts about you, parents will continually ask you to complete it, family will stop helping you, you might lose your allowance, parents might ground you, or ask you to do it again.
400
Identify criteria for a large problem
-Involves a larger group of people -Dangerous -Definitely need help to fix it -Could take a long time to fix
500
What is something unexpected to say about someone's halloween costume you don't like?
"I don't like that costume very much" "That's weird," etc.
500
What is the name of Ms. Lynne's dog?
Riley
500
How do you feel when you do chores in an expected manner?
Happy, proud, calm, etc.
500
How will you feel when you do chores in an unexpected way?
Frustrated, tired, annoyed, uncomfortable, tense
500
Identify criteria of a medium problem
-Involves a small group of people -You might need help to fix it -You may feel uncomfortable -It may take a little while to fix
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