When you don't think about the consequences because they are so far away.
What is distant elephants?
100
Examples of this type of abuse are controlling money or breaking someone's personal items.
What is financial abuse?
100
S
What is secretive?
100
C
What is CONSENT?
100
ACCOUNTABILITY?
What is being responsible for our actions.
200
We use this thinking error to get attention and to make other people feel sorry for use. We use it to get other people to leave us alone insted of holding us accountable when we mess up.
What is victim stance.
200
Examples of this type of abuse are punching, kicking, spitting, and slapping.
What is phsyical abuse?
200
A
What is abusive?
200
E
What is EQUALITY?
200
CONSENT?
What is getting permission BEFORE you do something.
300
This is when we make something seem less than it really was. Hint: using the words "only" or "just"
What is minimizing.
300
Examples of this type of abuse include name calling, putting someone down.
What is emotional abuse?
300
F
What is feelings?
300
R
What is RESPECT?
300
Thinking Errors
What is wrong thinking or how we make things right
400
This is when a person only thinks about himself or herself.
What is Me, Me, Me!
400
Examples of this type of abuse include incest, child molestation, sexting and rape.
What is sexual abuse?
400
E
What is escape?
400
T
What is TRUST?
400
Indirect victims
What is people who are also impacted by your offending behavior, such as your parents, school, etc.
500
This is fingerpointing or putting the responsibility on someone else.
What is blaming.
500
Examples of this type of abuse include manipulation and intimidation.