What Not To Do
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Crisis
What do you need?
How old am I?
Negative Outcomes
100

Not picking up your crying baby because he "needs to learn"

What is Stage 1

100

Stage 4

What is industry versus inferiority

100

I make attachments to caregivers when they responded to my cries for help

What is stage 1

100

Stage 3: Preschoolers 

What is 2 to 6 years
100

I do not trust people or my environment 

What is stage 1 negative outcomes

200

Responding to a child with anger and annoyance because they should "know better by now"

What is stage 3

200

Stage 3

What is initiative versus guilt

200

I need a lot of praise and to hear I am perfect as I am

What is stage 4

200

Stage 4: School-agers

What is 6 to 12 years

200

I feel inferior and work to impress my peers

What is stage 4 negative outcomes

300

Yelling at your child for having a potty accident

What is stage 2

300

Stage 2

What is independence versus doubt and shame
300

I need encouragement so I can feel confident doing things on my own

What is stage 2

300

Stage 2: Toddlers

What is 1 to 2 years

300

I develop a sense of guilt and may become rebellious

What is stage 3 negative outcomes 

400

Making fun of your child's height and voice compared to their peers

What is stage 4

400

Stage 1

What is trust versus mistrust
400

I need freedom to learn on my own, and encouragement to try again when I mess up

What is stage 3

400

Stage 1: Infants

What is birth to 1 year

400

I doubt myself and feel ashamed 

What is stage 2 negative outcomes
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