Conflict Resolution
Recognize
Refuse
Report
Bystanders
100
Telling on someone to get him or her in trouble.
What is a TATTLING?
100
Someone is NOT being treated the same as other people.
What is UNFAIR?
100
This is the opposite of being aggressive, in other words, speaking up in a respectful way.
What is BEING ASSERTIVE?
100
This describes the details of a bullying report.
What is WHAT HAPPENED?
100
This describes anyone who knows that bullying is happening.
What is A WITNESS OR BYSTANDER?
200
Telling someone how you feel using this formula, "I feel________ when you ________."
What is an I MESSAGE?
200
When a person is being mean to someone and they don't do anything in return.
What is ONE_SIDED?
200
This non-verbal behavior shows the person that you are serious and confident.
What is STANDING-TALL or EYE CONTACT?
200
This describes the exact location of a bullying situation.
What is WHERE DID IT OCCUR?
200
This describes when you stand up against a bully for someone else.
What is REFUSING TO LET OTHERS BE BULLIED?
300
You can say to yourself, "I need to get cool and calm," or "I'm okay," you can take deep breaths, or you can use positive self-talk.
What are ways of calming down before trying to resolve a conflict?
300
This is something that gives a person an advantage over other people, like having more friends or being stronger.
What is POWER?
300
This is one of the most important things to tell a person when refusing bullying. ("Label the behavior!")
What is "STOP! THAT'S BULLYING!"?
300
This identifies all of the people involved in a bullying report.
What is WHO WAS INVOLVED?
300
You tell an adult if you witness a bullying situation.
What is REPORTING and REFUSING TO WATCH BULLYING?
400
When two or more people are being disrespectful to each other but have equal power to solve the problem and are not purposely trying to hurt each other.
What is CONFLICT?
400
This repeated behavior is unfair, one-sided, hurtful and happens when someone frightens, threatens or leaves someone out on purpose.
What is BULLYING?
400
If you are outnumbered, someone has a weapon, or is showing/touching private body parts you should do this immediately.
What is REPORT A BIG PROBLEM? (OR UNSAFE)
400
This tells us how often the bullying situation has occured.
What is HOW MANY TIMES HAS THIS HAPPENED?
400
Including people who are left out into games and activities. Think about how you would like to be treated!
What is BEING RESPECTFUL?
500
Helping each other, compromising, forgiving each other, managing problems and disagreements fairly, and being respectful.
What are things you can do to keep friends?
500
When bullying happens at least two times.
What is REPEATED?
500
These are examples of non-verbal refusal skills: standing up tall, head up, eye contact, safe personal space, walking away calmly.
What is BODY LANGUAGE?
500
This describes the time of day the bullying occured.
What is WHEN DID IT OCCUR?
500
These people have the most power to help stop bullying.
Who are BYSTANDERS?
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