A positive consequence is an expected and calm behavior that makes others feel happy and pleased with you.
A negative consequence is an unexpected, inappropriate, and often times child-like behavior that makes others feel bad and frustrating feelings about you.
Consequences - grounded, phone taken away, do chores, can't go somewhere you really want to (friend's house/mall)
"What am I ____________ do?"
Or just don't say them! There are other ways you can respectfully show your anger.
Get suspended without pay.
Given a type of warning/probation.
"Look at all the _________"
Your teacher had a respectful conversation with you in the hallway about not talking when the teacher is talking. You listen and go back in class with a quiet voice and remain quiet.
"_________ out an answer."
NOT the other person's words, actions or behavior.
"Check out an ________"