Emotions / Feelings
How may someone feel if they are a target?
unhappy, sad, negative mood, mistrust, see people as dangerous, sensitive, may lash out and harm others or themselves, think that harm doing is okay.
What is a passive bystander?
A passive bystander is a bystander who does not take action, or seem to accept, approve of, or join in the harm they witness.
What is harmdoing?
Harassment, excluding or ignoring someone, name calling, telling lies, threatening, forcing someone to do something, physical violence, stealing or damaging someone’s possessions, making negative comments or gestures about someone.
What inhibitor is this an example of?
One student deliberately pushes another into a locker, shoving them hard. Everyone is walking past, pretending not to see the incident.
Mask
List 3 things you remember learning about.
Bystandership, Harmdoing, etc.
How may someone feel if they harmdoing?
powerful when doing harm, could continue doing harm and become even more aggressive in the future, think that harm doing is okay.
What is a target?
A target is someone who is being harmed, hurt, or excluded.
What is a consequence?
A consequence is the result of an action. Can be good or bad.
What inhibitor is this an example of?
A group of students have gathered around a fight. No one does or says anything to break it up because everyone is waiting for someone else to act.
Who Me?
What is an ally? List 3 allies in your life.
An ally is someone who is on your side, supports you, or can help you.
Friends, Teachers, Adult you trust, Parents, Police, Firemen, Others.
How may someone feel if they are a passive bystander?
become less trusting and feel less effective, feel bad in the future for having been passive or having joined in.
What is an active bystander?
A bystander is someone who steps in to stop the harm doing in the moment or later.
What is an ally?
An ally is someone who is on your side, supports you, or can help you.
What inhibitor is this an example of?
Two of your friends are in a fight, you want to help but you’re afraid of saying the wrong thing and making them mad at you.
Fear
Describe a situation where it is NOT safe to interfere.
Situation involving physical harm or where you would put yourself at risk of harm.
How may a community feel if harm is happening?
Feels unsafe, creates a negative environment where harm doing is okay.
What is a harmdoer?
A harmdoer is someone who does harm, on purpose, or sometimes accidentally.
What is moral courage?
Moral courage is doing the right thing even if it puts them at personal risk of losing friends or other negative consequences. For example standing up for what is right even if it means standing alone.
What inhibitor is this an example of?
Two friends are teasing each other, it’s hard to tell if they are playing around or if their feelings are actually getting hurt. You don’t know if the person being teased needs help.
Confusion
Describe a situation where it is safe to interfere.
Situation not involving physical harm or where you would put yourself at risk of harm.
Explain a situation that might lead to someone feeling upset or sad.
Being left out, being harmed, etc.
What is a bystander?
A bystander someone who knows or witnesses what is going on in the situation and is in a position to take action.
What does retaliation mean?
The act of hurting someone or doing something harmful to someone because someone did or said something harmful to them.
What inhibitor is this an example of?
You see one of your classmates being harmed and it bothers you, but you are afraid that if you step in the harm doer will start doing it to you too.
Danger
What does TAB stand for?
Training Active Bystanders