Avoidance, Diversion and Aggression
What are the 3 categories of tactics?
When you sit quietly to avoid detection or no head in agreement
What is staying silent to avoid notice?
What is Raging?
When a person focuses on proving the other person in the discussion is wrong in order to make them feel in control or dominant over the other person.
What is arguing?
a behavior that a person has developed as a result of their thinking
What is a tactic?
when a person pays attention to or only remembers what they want
What is selective memory & attention?
when you move attention onto someone else and talk about what they have done wrong
What is pointing out the faults in others?
when you make statements about others that are intended to make them feel stupid, worthless or just criticize other.
What is sarcasm & teasing?
when you say "I don't know" or I don't remember" to protect yourself
What is being deliberately vague?
if you are using a tactic for irresponsible or harmful purposes
When do tactics become criminal?
admitting to something by making it seem less important or harmful then it was
What is minimizing or trivializing?
What is introducing irrelevant issues?
When you intentionally pit one staff member against another.
What is staff spitting?
bringing up relevant treatment issues with the intention of distracting from the true topic at hand
What is a Smokescreen?
everyone
Who uses tactics?
by saying they do not understand in order to avoid accountability
What is playing dumb?
When you make small things much bigger to take the attention off yourself
What is Magnifying or exaggerating significance?
What is creating chaos?
when you assent or say what you think people want to hear just to get by with doing as little as possible
By helping to maintain cognitive distortions, deny criminal behavior, deny need for change and allow for certain feelings to continue.
How do tactics support a criminal lifestyle?
Leaving out details or add to a story with false facts to make you look better
What is lying by omission or commission?
when you pick apart the meaning of words used by others or play semantics
What is quibbling over word?
When you pull attention away from others and onto yourself to monopolize the group or refuse to participate.
What attention seeking?