SAFETY
EMOTIONS
LOSS
FUTURE
THE S.E.L.F. FRAMEWORK & TOOLKIT
100

How many types of safety are there in the Sanctuary Model?

4 Types

100

 Name 1 of the 5 main emotions  

 What is mad, sad, scared, glad, or shamed?

100

 Is loss ONLY when someone dies? Yes or No.

What is No.

100

 What does the F in S.E.L.F. stand for?

What is Future?

100

What does S.E.L.F. stand for?

What is Safety, Emotions, Loss, Future?

200

Which safety type protects us from physical harm and is our FIRST priority?

 What is Physical Safety?

200

 According to the model, are emotions normal or not normal?

What is normal? They are a normal part of life.

200

 Finish the phrase from the model: "Change equals..."

What is Loss?

200

Is Future about the past or about what is coming next?

What is what is coming next / looking ahead?

200

 What is the purpose of the S.E.L.F. Framework?

What is to help us organize our thinking and see the whole picture instead of focusing on only one behavior / give us a common language?

300

 If we talk about what is happening INSIDE a person, like self-esteem and self-control, what type of safety is it?

What is Psychological Safety?


300

What should we do with emotions: ignore them or learn to manage them?

What is learn to recognize, name, and manage them in healthy ways?

300

Give one example of a loss that is NOT death that youth experience.

What is moving to a new placement, changing schools, being separated from family, losing friendships, or changes in daily routines?

300

What do youth need to believe that things can get better?

What is hope?

300

The S.E.L.F. Framework helps us UNDERSTAND what is happening, while the Toolkit gives us what?

What is practical strategies / ways to respond consistently?

400

If we talk about friendships, feeling like you belong to a group, and trusting others, what type of safety is it?

What is Social Safety?

400

Instead of acting out, what do we encourage youth to do?

What is replace actions with words / talk about what they're feeling?

400

 Does everyone react the same way to a loss?

What is No. Some youth become angry, others withdraw or appear emotionally disconnected.

400

What do we help youth create for their future?

What is goals, strengths, and seeing that positive change is possible?

400

 Name ONE of the four questions we ask when using S.E.L.F.

 What is: Is there a safety concern? / What emotions are involved? / Is there a loss affecting them today? / What can we do to help them move toward a positive future?

500

If we talk about being fair, honest, and doing the right thing, what type of safety is it?

 What is Moral or Ethical Safety?

500

The final goal is not just expressing emotions, what is it?

What is managing emotions?

500

 When a youth acts defiant because of a loss, should we assume it's just defiance or respond with empathy?

What is respond with empathy?

500

Finish the sentence: "Their past does not define their..."

What is future?

500

 Instead of reacting emotionally in a difficult situation, what does the Toolkit encourage us to do?

 What is slow down, think through the situation, and respond intentionally?

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