Doctrine & Principles
Teaching Children One Step at a Time
Giving Choices
Setting Expectations
Poor Parenting Practices
100

What sacred duty do parents have regarding their children?

To teach their children to obey God’s commandments and the rules of home and society.

100

When should parents begin teaching responsible behavior?

When children are infants.

100

Why are choices important in teaching responsible behavior?

They help children learn to behave responsibly by practicing decision‑making.

100

What must parents clearly communicate to their children?

What they expect of them.

100

What is one inappropriate behavior parents should stop immediately?

Swearing, lying, mistreating family members, or being rude.

200

Doctrine & Covenants 93:40 teaches that parents must bring up their children in "light and "___".

Truth

200

Why is teaching one step at a time important?

Children learn gradually and need manageable, developmentally appropriate tasks.

200

What is one benefit of giving children choices instead of commands?

It increases cooperation and reduces power struggles.

200

Why do unclear expectations lead to misbehavior?

Children cannot meet expectations they do not understand.

200

Why is modeling inappropriate behavior harmful?

Children imitate what they see.

300

What did the Lord rebuke early Church leaders for, according to the session?

For not teaching their children properly.

300

What natural trait do children possess that makes early teaching effective?

A natural desire to learn.

300

What type of choices should parents give?

Simple, age‑appropriate choices that guide responsible behavior.

300

What is one way parents can communicate expectations effectively?

By teaching through example.

Having Family Council

Communication

Involve them in the Rule making process

300

What should parents do after identifying a poor parenting practice?

Write down one or two changes and commit to making them.

400

Who said this: “Those who do too much for their children will soon find they can do nothing with their children.”

Elder Neal A. Maxwell

400

What is one reason parents may fail to teach children appropriately?

They tend to parent the way they were raised, even if those methods were permissive, controlling, or neglectful.

400

How do choices help children spiritually?

They teach agency—choosing between right and wrong.

400

What happens when parents are inconsistent in expectations?

Children become confused and may test boundaries more often.

400

What is one reason parents may become overly controlling or permissive?

They parent the way they were raised.

500

According to the First Presidency, who will be held accountable before God for teaching children?

Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers.

500

What is the long‑term consequence of failing to teach children step by step?

Children may not learn responsible behavior and may be at risk for emotional neglect or abuse.

500

What must parents do after giving a choice?

Follow through consistently with the outcome of the child’s choice.

500

Why is setting expectations a spiritual responsibility?

Because parents are commanded to teach obedience, faith, repentance, and industriousness.

500

What is the spiritual consequence of neglecting teaching responsibilities?

Parents will be held accountable before God.

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