Conflict Resolution
It's been a long day and it's 30 minutes before lights out. Maggie and Nory are slap happy and talking loudly. Alynna says, "BE QUIET! I'm trying to sleep!"
Maggie and Nory should ________
A. yell back that it's not even lights out time yet
B. apologize and ask her not to yell next time
C. go right to J.J. or Mikaela and tell them Alynna is being mean
What is B
Who is Dani.
James takes extra long getting ready in the morning. You need to have __________ (What fruit of the Spirit?)
What is patience?
Dayna is really good at getting to know new people. She feels good and decides that since she's good at it, she'll do the same thing tomorrow.
The work options are visiting a nursing home or weeding the deer pen alone.
In order to practice doing hard things, Dayna should _______
The purpose of doing hard things.
What is weed the deer pen alone.
We're organizing a closet and your partner has a completely different idea of how to do it than you. It's making you frustrated; you should __________.
Pray in your heart
Go get a drink of water to get some space
Find something postive to say
Ask a question about their idea
The first name of every person on the team.
Who is James, Mikaela, JJ, Larson, Dani, Maggie, Boston, Dayna, Luke, Connor, Brooke, Nory, Alynna, Caleb, Ken
Brooke tells you she's really tired and needs a few minutes to be alone after dinner. You should _________________.
What is understand where she's coming from and give her space?
What is ask her if she needs anything or if you can help?
Pray with her and give her an extra help with the work tomorrow.
When we're working, people keep taking the heavy things away from Boston and telling him he doesn't need to lift them or work so hard. He should ________.
A. Accept that and go sit down.
B. Work as hard as he can.
C. Ask for a different job because this one's too hard
What is B.
When we're all hanging out, someone tells a joke that you find insulting. You should ________
Talk to them afterwards. Tell them how you feel and ask what they were thinking.
Tell them right there that you didn't like the joke
Name one leader who's and early bird and one who's a night owl.
Who is Mikaela (early bird)
Who is James (night owl)
Connor has a lot of energy and wants to play a game but it's getting late and everyone else is winding down. He should ____________(What fruit of he spirit)
What is have self-control
Larson tells you to go clean the showers, you should ______
A. Ask him to send someone else
B. Tell him you hurt your back yesterday and you can't
C. Go do it
What is C.
You've asked Ken to play a game with you and he says he's already going to go do something with Caleb. You should _______.
Go find someone else to hang out with
The grade everyone is going in to.
What is
Dani -7th
Connor, Nory -8th
Brooke, Dayna, Alynna -9th
Boston, Maggie, Luke, Caleb -11th
Luke has finished dinner and is ready to throw his trash away. What should he do next? (Remember this category is "loving one another".)
Ask if you can throw anyone else's trash away
Patiently wait until everyone is done and collect all the trash.
The purpose of doing hard things.
What is growing faith, obeying God, ...
Your teammate has been bugging you and you've asked them to stop. They keep doing the same things and it seems like they're doing it just to get on your nerves. You should _______.
What is ask for help
What is go to a leader
(Matthew 18:15-17)
Name at least one sibling (if they have one) for each member on the team.
Who is ________.
Recite a verse that talks about loving one another.
What is ___________.
Why are doing chores, getting up early, holding your temper, and spending time with your younger siblings, so hard to do?
They don't seem very important.
They're never finished.
They're not glamorous.
No one is watching.