Definitions
____ ____ ____ is a pattern of behavior that includes physical, emotional, verbal or sexual abuse used by one partner in a current or former intimate relationship to exert power and control over another. It is generally defined as occurring among individuals between the ages of 13 and 19.
A. Domestic Violence
B. Child Abuse
C. Teen Dating Violence
C. Teen Dating Violence
A partner constantly checks their significant other's phone without permission and gets angry when they talk to friends.
Correct Response: controlling behavior or emotional abuse
what is a healthy relationship?
A. when one person always gets their way
b. when both people feel safe, respected ,and valued
c. when you spend all your time together
d. when you do whatever your partner wants
b. when both people feel safe, respected, and valued
You notice your friend seems down and is avoiding everyone. What's a good first step?
3.Ask if they want to talk and let them know you're there
"You're so sensitive. It’s not a big deal." What’s a healthier way to say this?
A) "Whatever, get over it."
B) "I didn’t mean to hurt you—can you help me understand how you’re feeling?"
C) "You always overreact like this."
D) "You’re being dramatic again."
Correct Answer: B
_____ ______ is the most easily recognizable type of abuse because it often leaves a mark. This includes pinching, hitting, shoving, or kicking.
A. Verbal Abuse
B. Physical Abuse
C. Emotional Abuse
B. Physical Abuse
Every time Jordan hangs out with friends, their partner texts non-stop, asking for proof of where they are and who they’re with.
Correct Response:digital abuse controlling behavior
why is communication important in a healthy relationship?
A. so one person can be in control
B.to avoid talking about problems
C. to build trust and solve problems together
D. to keep the other person guessing
C. to build trust and solve problems together
Which of the following is a trusted adult a teen could turn to for support?
2.A teacher, counselor, or family member
"If you leave, don’t bother coming back. I won’t forgive you." The What’s a more respectful response?
A) "You’re on your own if you walk out."
B) "Fine, leave. I don’t care."
C) "I’m feeling really hurt and scared right now. Can we talk about this calmly?"
D) "You better stay, or else."
Correct Answer: C
_____ _______ are sometimes harder to identify or understand. This involves threatening a partner or harming their sense of self-worth.
A. Emotional Abuse
B. Physical Abuse
C. Financial Abuse
A. Emotional Abuse
Sam’s partner threatens to break up with him if he doesn’t stop talking to his best friend, who is just a friend.
Correct response: Controlling behavior/ emotional abuse
what does it mean to respect someone's boundaries in a relationship ?
A. doing what they want all the time
B. ignoring their comfort level
C. pressuring them until they say yes
D. listening and not pushing them to do anything they're uncomfortable with
D. listening and not pushing them to do anything they're uncomfortable with
Your friend says their partner keeps calling them names and makes them feel worthless. How can you
support them?
4.Listen, believe them, and encourage them to talk to a trusted adult
"Why are you always texting other people? Are you cheating on me?"
Which is a healthier alternative?
A) "I’ve been feeling insecure lately—can we talk about how we stay open and honest with each other?"
B) "I’ll just go through your phone when you're not looking."
C) "I don’t trust you anymore."
D) "You can’t talk to anyone but me."
Correct Answer: A
_______ _________ is a type of emotional or sexual abuse. It includes constant texts and phone calls, using social media or GPS/spyware to track someone’s location, stealing passwords, or pressuring them to send explicit photos and videos.
A. Stalking
B. Digital Abuse
C. Location Abuse
B. Digital Abuse
Taylor’s boyfriend pressures her to go farther physically than she wants to, saying, “If you really cared about me, you’d do this.”
Correct Response: Sexual Abuse
Your friend’s partner constantly texts them and gets upset if they don’t reply right away. What is the best advice to give?
A. They should always respond quickly to keep the peace
B. It’s okay to take breaks and they should talk about healthy space
C.They should turn off their phone all the time
D. Just ignore the problem and hope it goes away
B. It’s okay to take breaks and they should talk about healthy space
If someone is being abused and they don't feel safe, where can they go for immediate help?
1.A school counselor or nurse
2. The National Domestic Violence Hotline
3.911 (if in danger)
4. All of the above
4. All of the above
"If you really loved me, you’d prove it." What’s a respectful way to express your feelings instead?
A) "I care about you, and I want to make sure we both feel respected and comfortable."
B) "You need to do what I say or this won’t work."
C) "Love means doing what I want."
D) "Stop being difficult and just say yes."
Correct Answer: A
________ is a form of psychological abuse; it makes one partner feel like they can’t trust their own instincts, judgment and sense of reality.
A. Stalking
B. Blackmail
C. Gaslighting
C. Gaslighting
During an argument, Casey’s partner shoves her into the wall and then says it was “just because they were mad.”
Correct Response: physical abuse
How can knowing yourself better help you have healthier relationships?
A. It helps you change for others
B. It makes you less likely to care about relationships
C.It helps you recognize what you want and speak up for yourself
D. It makes relationships more confusing
C. It helps you recognize what you want and speak up for yourself
Which is the BEST way to offer emotional support to a friend in a toxic relationship?
2.Stay calm, listen without judging, and remind them they deserve respect
"You never listen to me. You're so selfish!" What’s a healthier way to express this frustration?
A) "You don’t care about anyone but yourself."
B) "I feel ignored when I talk and you don’t respond. Can we work on listening to each other better?"
C) "Whatever. I’m done trying to talk to you."
D) "I shouldn’t have to repeat myself all the time. You’re impossible."
Correct Answer: B