Nailed it or Failed it
You text your mom: “Hey! Just wanted to say hi 😊” —
Nailed it – This is casual and appropriate for a close relationship.
True or False: Texting can help reduce sensory overload because it removes the need for eye contact, loud sounds, and body language.
It creates a calmer communication environment, especially helpful for autistic individuals.
A friend hasn’t replied in 24 hours. You’re feeling anxious. What’s the best move?
Give them space and avoid double-texting. They might be busy or need time.
You text someone a joke and they reply with “lol.” No emoji, no follow-up. What might that mean?
They might not found it that funny, but they’re just being polite.
You send a 5-paragraph message to a new acquaintance explaining your weekend in detail.
Failed it – Long texts can feel overwhelming, especially early in a relationship.
True or False: If someone doesn’t reply right away, it’s safe to assume they’re ignoring you.
False – People may be busy or overwhelmed. Jumping to conclusions can damage relationships.
You want to confirm a date with someone. What’s a respectful way to text them?
“Hi, just want to confirm that we are grabbing dinner at 6pm today!"
You send a message and the person replies with a thumbs-up emoji and nothing else. What could that signal?
They may be ending the conversation or not interested in continuing. It’s a neutral response.
You text your best friend at midnight that you've been stalking your old boyfriend and start sending them screenshots of his new gf.
Failed it – It's too late in the night and they could be winding down or sleeping. Wait until the next day.
True or False: Using emojis and acronyms like “LOL” is always a good idea to show friendliness.
True! But it depends...Only use them if the other person does. Overusing them can be too dramatic or confusing.
You’re feeling upset about family drama and want to vent to your friend over text. Should you text it?
No – Save serious or emotional conversations for in-person or phone chats. You can message them "Hey, I've been feeling down this week. Do you have some time this weekend to talk?"
You and a friend usually text often, but suddenly their replies are short and delayed. What might be going on, and how should you respond?
They could be stressed, busy, or feeling distant. Instead of assuming, give them space and check in gently later.
You wait a few hours before replying to a friend’s message, then respond with a thoughtful reply.
Nailed it – Waiting shows patience and gives the other person space.
True or False: You should always match the other person’s texting style, including their tone, timing, and message length.
True – It helps the conversation feel more natural and respectful.
You’re texting someone new and want to build a connection. How do you match their style?
Notice how long their messages are, how quickly they reply, and whether they use emojis or not.
You get a message that says “???” after you didn’t reply for 10 minutes. How might they be feeling?
Impatient. Don't feel like you have to rush to text back!