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Which of these behaviors describes bullying behavior?
a. repeated threats, intimidation or physical harm
b. harassing statements posted online about someone
c. repeated name calling, put downs, and teasing
d. all of the above
The characteristics of constructive criticism include
a. respect, specific suggestions for improvement and name calling
b. respect specific suggestions for improvement and frustration
c. respect specific suggestions for improvement and focus on what a person can change
d. respect specific suggestions for improvement and an aggressive tone of voice
The Assertive Speaker
a. stands tall, makes eye contact and speaks in a confident tone
b. stands tall, makes eye contact and talks quietly
c. stands tall, makes eye contact and uses an aggressive tone
d. slouches, makes eye contact and talks quietly
Which of the following actions demonstrates disrespect?
a. frequently being late to appointments
b. holding the door open for someone
c. shaking someone's hand to introduce yourself
d. making eye contact during a conversation
What is the purpose of the Win-Win approach to resolve a conflict?
a. Both people avoid dealing with the conflict altogether
b. Both people share or split the difference
c. Both people win nothing or lose nothing
d. One person wins and the other loses
Charles keeps harassing and threatening you between classes. Sometimes he knocks your books out of your hands and laughs at you. As the target of Charles' bullying behavior, you should use which health response?
a. Don't tell a trusted adult that you are being bullied
b. Be assertive with Charles and say "People would respect you more if you didn't push them around."
c. Isolate yourself from others
d. Convince yourself that you're not important
Before Sophia started dating Aiden she wasn't really interested in sports, but now she goes to most of Aiden's baseball games to support and encourage him. What healthy qualities exist in their relationship?
a. care, support and respect
b. care, support and and forgiveness
c. care, support and isolation
d. all of the above
Who should set your goals?
a. your friends
b. advertisers
c. you
d. your teacher
Some teens don't resolve conflicts peacefully because they
a. are bad people
b. want to be unhealthy
c. cannot manage their emotions in healthy ways
d. are cool, popular, and well respected
Ella was proud of her ability to play the violin, but that changed after she started dating Owen. Owen laughs at her playing and tells her that she isn't very good. What unhealthy qualities exist in their relationship?
b. insults, trust and understanding
c. insults, humiliation and respect
d. insults, humiliation and discouragement
Which of the following statements is trust? Negotiation is used in a conflict to
a. demand what you want
b. pressure others until they give up
c. cooperate and work to reach a resolution that everyone agree upon
d. ignore the viewpoints of others
Teen dating violence is
a. only in the movies
b. a way of showing affection
c. only verbal putdowns
d. any behavior used to manipulate, hurt, control, frighten or intimidate
Demonstrating respect for yourself and others shows
a. your awareness of your impact on the world around you
b. your empathy for others
c. that you value yourself and others even if you have different values or opinions
d. all of the above
The Active Listener
a. makes eye contact, interrupts and thinks of what to say next
b. makes eye contact, asks clarifying questions and has attentive posture
c. makes eye contact, asks clarifying questions and is texting someone else
d. looks away, interrupts and thinks of what to say next
You notice that Kyla keeps threatening Amy at the bus stop. As the witness to Kyla's bullying behavior, which of the following is a healthy response for you to use?
a. Put Kyla down by telling her that everyone hates her
b. Encourage Kyla to work out her aggression in a healthy way like joining a sports team
c. Pretend that you didn't see the situation and walk away
d. Tell Amy that she's a wimp and that she should try to avoid Kyla as much as possible
Joe wanted Rob to steal candy from the Quick Mart up the street. Rob said, "why are you pressuring me? I said no." What is the name of peer-pressure refusal strategy Rob used?
a. Make an Excuse
b. Ignore
c. Broken Record
d. Reverse the pressure
Garret and Colin are working on a school project together. Garrett wants to meet before school to work on the project, but Colin wants to work on the project after school. What approach is the best way to resolve the conflict?
a. Steer Clear
b. Avoid it
c. Compromise
d. Complete
a. Name a reachable goal
b. Set a date for reaching your goal
c. Ask someone else what your goal should be
d. Say "I can"
Which of the following is most likely to help you get what you want in life?
a. peer pressure
b. goal setting
c. advertising
d. all of the above
What does empathy make you feel?
a. suspicious of peer pressure
b. more connected with the feelings of others
c. assertive
d. aggressive