Bully Prevention
Habit #1 and #2
Habit #3 and #4
Habit #5
Habit #6 and #7
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A theme we use at school to prevent bullying.
What is "Be a Buddy, not a Bully!"
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Habit #1
What is "Be Proactive - You are in charge of you!"?
100
Habit #3
What is "Putting First things First" -- prioritizing and managing your time so you do the important things first?
100
Habit #5
What is "Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood"?
100
Habit #6
What is "Synergize"?
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The first step in building a friendship.
What is respect?
200
Habit #2
What is "Begin with the End in Mind - Make a goal and have a plan to accomplish it"?
200
Habit #4
What is "Think win-win -- you compromise and cooperate so everyone can succeed and feel happy"?
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Listening with your eyes and heart, not just your ears.
What is "looking someone in the eye while talking to them, using your eyes to read their body language to see how they might be feeling, and using your heart to understand their point of view and why they fell the way they do"?
200
Habit #7
What is "Sharpen the Saw"?
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The ways to report bullying.
What is to an adult such as your teacher, Mrs. Timmons, or Mr. Horrocks; in the Buddy Box; or on the school website?
300
The object lesson that taught us we can be proactive in handling our anger in calm ways or reactive in handling our anger by exploding. We want to be proactive!
What is the soda pop bottle and water bottle lesson?
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You and a friend are having a conflict. You want to play tag, and she wants to play basketball because she finally got a ball after waiting a long time. What could two do in order to make a win win solution.
Play Dodge ball, Ball Tag
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You and a friend are having a conflict. She thinks you talked about her behind her back, but you didn't. What should you do to in this situation in order to show that you are Seeking First to Understand.
Show you care what she thinks. Don't interrupt Listen to their side.
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When two or more people work together to create a better solution then either of them could have thought of alone.
What is "synergizing"?
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The three R's of Bullying
What is Recognize, Refuse, and Report?
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Example of Habit #2.
What is studying spelling every night to get a good grade on your spelling test or saving money to buy something special or reading every night to finish your new book or working hard in school so you can go to college?
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Pokey learned to "Put first things first"
What is "when Pokey played all week instead of studying for his spelling test, he did really bad on his spelling test, but when he studied every day before he played, then he got 100% on his spelling test. He learned the importance of what habit"?
400
The qualities of a good listener.
What is "looks at me when I speak, listens to my ideas and feelings, does not interrupt, wants to understand me"?
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The story of "Sleepy Sophie."
What is "when Sophie stayed up all night to read a book, she was so tired the next day she couldn't think or stay awake at school. She learned that she needed to take care of her body by getting enough sleep and eating healthy, not just taking care of her mind by reading. She needs to be in balance"?
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The definition of bullying - 4 parts
What is unfair, one-sided, repeated and includes a power difference -- bigger than you, older than you, a group of people against you?
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The animal that uses Habit #2 -- even if she has to swim hundreds of miles to achieve her goal of laying eggs on the beach where she was born.
What is a sea turtle?
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The animals that use Habit #3 and Habit #4.
What is the woodchuck who prepares to hibernate by putting first things first and the honey badger and the honey guide who think win win so they can both get the food they need?
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The story of "Jumper and the Lost Butterfly Net."
What is "Jumper wants to go to Fish-eye Lake to play and he tries to get Goob to come. Goob is sad because he lost his butterfly net. Jumper is not listening to Goob and Goob is frustrated with him. When Jumper runs into Allie who is crying, he can't understand what she is saying and takes her to Lily. Lily teaches him that he must listen with his eyes and heart, not just his ears. He realizes that he wasn't listening with his eyes and heart when he talked to Goob. He goes back to Goob to say that he can now see that he is sad and he wants to help him. Allie saves the day by knowing where the butterfly net is. Jumper learns the importance of listening with his eyes and his heart, not just his ears?
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The animals that use Habits #6 and #7.
What is geese synergize by flying in a V when they fly south for the winter, Lions sharpen the saw by taking care of their body, mind, heart and soul?
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