Meaningful Touch
What is an example of meaningful touch mentioned in the book?
hug, handshake, or a pat on the back that communicates care and love
What are spoken words of affirmation?
Positive, encouraging, and uplifting words that express love, value, and support for someone.
What does it mean to 'attach high value' to someone?
It means to communicate that they are precious, unique, and valued beyond measure.
What does it mean to 'picture a special future' for someone?
It means to offer hope and encouragement by expressing confidence in their potential and envisioning a positive future for them.
What is active commitment in The Blessing?
It’s the ongoing, intentional effort to support, encourage, and invest in someone’s life and well-being.
True or False: Meaningful touch is only important for small children?
False. Meaningful touch is important for people of all ages.
True or False: Words of affirmation must be spoken face-to-face to be effective?
False. Words of affirmation can be written, spoken over the phone, or shared in other ways.
Give one way to attach high value to a child, as described in The Blessing.
Highlight their unique talents or character traits, such as saying, "You are so thoughtful and kind."
Give an example from the book of how a parent can picture a special future for their child.
"I know you’re going to make a difference in the world," or "You have the potential to be a great leader."
True or False: Active commitment is a one-time event?
False. Active commitment is a long-term, consistent investment in someone's growth and success.
What is the significance of meaningful touch according to The Blessing?
It communicates love, acceptance, and emotional connection.
Give an example of a simple phrase of affirmation from the book.
"I’m proud of you," or "You are a gift to our family."
How does attaching high value impact a person's sense of self-worth?
It reinforces their intrinsic value, helping them feel confident, worthy, and capable.
How can picturing a special future motivate someone to achieve their goals?
It gives them a vision of what’s possible, motivating them to strive toward it and believe in their ability to achieve it.
Give an example of active commitment from The Blessing.
Regularly attending a child’s events, being present during tough times, or offering practical help when needed.
Why might meaningful touch be difficult for some people to give or receive?
Cultural differences, personal boundaries, past experiences of trauma, or discomfort with physical affection.
According to The Blessing, why are spoken words so powerful in shaping someone's identity?
Spoken words can either build someone up or tear them down. Affirmation helps reinforce positive self-worth and encourages individuals to see their value.
True or False: Attaching high value is primarily done through words?
False. It can be done through actions, support, and how you treat the person as well as through words.
Why is it important to be specific when picturing a special future for someone?
Specificity makes the vision more believable and personal, helping the person see their strengths and potential clearly.
How does active commitment help solidify the other elements of The Blessing?
It shows that the spoken words, touch, and affirmations are backed by actions, making the blessing authentic and meaningful.
In The Blessing, how is meaningful touch connected to building trust in relationships?
It helps establish safety and trust by communicating care, breaking down barriers, and fostering emotional closeness.
What role do spoken words of affirmation play in resolving conflicts or building resilience, according to the book?
They can de-escalate conflicts, promote healing, and provide emotional support during difficult times.
Why is attaching high value important for future success, according to The Blessing?
When people feel valued, they are more likely to believe in their potential, take risks, and pursue their dreams with confidence.
What does the book say about balancing realistic expectations with picturing a special future?
While it’s important to be hopeful and encouraging, it’s also necessary to keep expectations realistic to avoid creating pressure or disappointment.
What might hinder someone from offering active commitment, and how can it be overcome?
Time constraints, personal fears, or past hurts can hinder active commitment. Overcoming these involves prioritizing relationships and making a conscious choice to be present.