The Foundation: Understanding Bitterness
According to Hebrews 12:15, what does the "root of bitterness" do to others?
I troubles you and defiles many.
Which Biblical commandment is violated when a spouse commits adultery?
"Thou shalt not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14)
Which woman from Luke 10 felt better while serving alone?
Martha.
Which woman spoke against her leader and became leprous as a result?
Miriam.
What does Psalms 127:1 teach about building without God?
It's done in vain - only God builds lasting houses.
Bitterness is compared to what type of plant in the notes?
A spiritual weed.
After financial failure in marriage, bitterness often grows from what two emotions?
Disappointment and blame.
What emotion often fuels a mother's feeling of being "unseen and overworked"?
Resentment.
According to Ephesians 4:31-32, what should believers "put away"?
Bitterness, wrath, anger, evil speaking, and malice.
What replaces the "roof" of pride when rebuilding with God's help?
Grace.
True or False: Bitterness always reflects objective reality.
False: It distorts perception and creates false narratives.
What was Hosea's response to Gomer's unfaithfulness?
He forgave her - modeling God's faithful love.
According to the notes, what can children "inherit" from a bitter parent?
The same patterns of bitterness through tone and behavior.
What attitude can cause bitterness when someone is corrected or replaced in ministry?
Pride or jealousy.
Which verse promises God will give "beauty for ashes"?
Isaiah 61:3.
What emotion often disguises itself as "clarity" when bitterness takes hold?
Suspicion.
Name one modern example of jealousy in marriage mentioned in the notes.
Ayesha Curry or Jada Pinkett Smith.
What spiritual practice helps mothers move from frustration to peace?
Obeying God's Word and resting in His presence.
What should older women model for younger women, according to the discussion notes?
Obedience, humility, and godly speech.
Name one spiritual habit that guards the heart against bitterness.
Practicing thankfulness, prayer, forgiveness, or Scripture meditation.
List two commandments that prevent the "House of Bitterness" from being built.
Forgiveness & humility (also love or contentment).
What three steps help dismantle bitterness after adultery?
Forgive and repent; seek healing through prayer and counsel; rebuild trust with humility.
What is one way to protect your children from your bitterness?
Seek counsel, forgive, and model humility.
According to Romans 12:17-21, how should we respond to someone who wrongs us?
Do good to them; overcome evil with good; let God handle vengeance.
What daily prayer from Psalms 51:10 should believers use for renewal?
"Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me".