Coping Skills
Lucas
I Statements
Feelings
Anger
100

What is a coping skill?

A coping skill is something you do to help you calm down. 

100

What is Lucas' favorite thing to do?

Lucas, is this correct?

100

What are "I" Statements?

(Hint: "You are feeling angry" is a "you" statement.)

I statements are saying what you think or feel using the word "I." Example: "I think this is fun!" 

100

Name 5 feelings. 

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100

What is an anger trigger?

Something that makes you mad

200

Why should people use coping skills when they are upset?

To get in control of their feelings and behaviors so they can solve the problem instead of make it worse. 

200

When is Lucas' birthday?

September 3, 2010

200

Give an example of an "I" statement. 

I feel/think ____________.

200

Tell about a time you felt angry. 

I felt angry when... 

200

What are three anger triggers you have?

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300

Tell about a time you used a coping skill. 

1. What was happening that made you upset?

2. What feeling did you have?

3. What coping skill did you use?

1. I was upset because ____________

2. I was feeling ____________

3. The coping skill I used was _____________

300

If Lucas had one wish, what would he wish for?

Lucas, is the answer correct?

300

Change this "you" statement to an "I" statement. 

"You are being so mean!" 

Example: "I think you are being mean right now." "I feel angry when you do this." 

300

Show us the feeling scared. 

Did you do it?
300

Is it bad to feel angry?

No, feelings are not bad. 

400

Name three coping skills you can use. 

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400

If Lucas could have one superpower, what would it be?

Lucas, is the answer correct?

400

Why is it helpful to use an "I" statement and not a "You" statement?

It helps me focus on what I think, feel, need and helps you not feel more upset. 
400

How do you know how someone is feeling?

Face, body, voice, words

400

What should you do if you feel very angry?

1. Coping skill

2. Show your anger in a helpful way

500

Teach us how to use a coping skill. 

Try it out! 

500

What makes Lucas special. Name 3 things. 

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500

Practice the "I" statement formula: I + feel + (pick a feeling) + when you + (problem). I + would + like you to + (solution). 

Example: I feel sad when you yell at me. I would like you to speak to me in a quiet voice. 
500

Show us your favorite feeling

Did you do it?
500

Tell two unhelpful ways to show anger. Tell two helpful ways to show anger. 

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