Thinking errors
Me, me, me! It's all about me!
Lack of empathy
I refuse to do things because they are boring or not fun and exciting. When I say "I can't" I really mean "I won't".
Lack of Initiative
I do not own all people, places or things. I care about doing what is right.
Think of others (Power Thrusting)
Being responsible makes my life worthwhile. I will help others without thinking they owe me a favor in return.
Responsibility
(Excuse Making)
Per the COYC handbook, how many stamps are youth allowed to have per WEEK?
2
I am not open to feedback
Concrete thinking
Justifying irresponsible behavior. "I had a perfectly good reason for doing that!"
Excuse Making
I am nobody's victim. I do not blame others for my behavior.
Victim no More
(Victim Stance)
Although I made a mistake, I am not a failure. I can recover from this and I will do better the next time. I don't always have to be number 1.
Positive Thinking
(Zero State)
Cognitive Behavioral Treatment/Therapy
Bonus 200 points:
What does PNF stand for?
I think I own all people, places and things. I do what I want, when I want.
Power Thrusting
Noted for being quickly and easily led into irresponsible behavior.
Suggestibility
I have no control over other people, places or things. I ask for what I need and accept what others can give me. I will be honest with others when I ask for what I need.
I control my own behavior
(Failure of Self-Control/Lack of accountability)
Daily Double!
I listen to others. I honestly look at my own behavior. I consider ideas even when they are different than mine.
Open Thinking
(concrete thinking)
How many points is an absolute perfect week? This means no 0's whatsoever.
Hint: there are 7 days in a week
336
I see myself as the only one who gets in trouble. Others are trying to hurt me.
Victim Stance
Daily Double!
Make up a story about Zero State. Arvin will determine if it's appropriate.
I recognize that I have hurt others by my behavior and I want to have other people care about me, but I know I need to care about them as well.
Caring about other people/Care for others
(Lack of Empathy)
I work even when the task or job is boring- hard work pays. I say "I can do this! I can get sober even though it's really hard!"
The Worker
(Lack of Initiative/Effort)
You hear this twice a day, every day over the radio.
Kitchen's ready for the girls
OR....
Kitchen's ready for the CRC's
Having an unrealistic, negative perception of yourself. If you're not first, your last!
Zero State
I look and talk about only the good things I have done. I refuse to look at my behaviors that have not gotten me what I asked for.
Lying/Minimizing
Daily Double!
I have many thoughts or feelings like others. I often see myself in others- both their good points and bad points. I will always try to do my best.
Human feelings and emotions
(False/Criminal Pride)
I look honestly at how I behave- good and bad. I look honestly at how I ask for things I want. I share honestly about my success.
Honesty
(Lying/Minimizing)
Daily Double!
How much money does each coupon cost in Arvin's store?
Hint: There are 5 coupons...
Phone: $8
Movie: $15
Free Time: $5
Gym Time: $5
Visit: $10