Give me three tools that you can use to calm down when angry.
Take Deep breaths, count to 10, take space, draw, read, exercise etc.
100
What is the first step in the problem solving process?
Identify the problem!
100
Boys who cry are babies
Girls aren't good at sports.
All children fight.
These are examples of a ___________________.
A stereotype
100
People say this all the time to pretend that they are being nice and/or funny but it really is mean. What do they say?
Just kidding!
200
The book we read to learn about the problem solving process.
What is "A Bargain for Frances"
200
When we see someone we make an educated guess about how they are feeling. How can we find out if our guesses are correct?
What is ask questions.
200
What questions do we ask to evaluate a possible solution in the problem solving process? List at least three.
Is it fair? Is it safe? Does it respect everyone's feelings? Will it work?
200
Mary Ann was the shortest girl in her class. She loved to run, and ran very fast. When teams were chosen, she was usually picked last. Others believed that is she is short, then she can't run fast. True or False?
False! Show how you can bust that stereotype.
200
Physical, verbal, friendship are examples of what?
Types of bullying. Give example for each category.
300
We learned about how everyone has similarities and differences in this book.
What is "Everybody Cooks Rice."
300
Your friend Anne left you out of a game and it hurt your feelings. Give me a good example of an I-Care Statement.
Anne, I feel upset that you left me out of the game. Next time can you please include me?
300
Tell the truth, listen without interrupting, no fouls, list ideas. What are these for?
They are the rules for a mediation.
300
1. We cooperate for peaceful purposes 2. We speak with respect 3. We listen with an open mind 4. We act with kindness 5. We care about each other's feelings 6. We are responsible for what we say and do.
The Peace Scholar Rules
300
What should a bystander do if they see bullying behavior? Give me at least two possible answers.
Don't Join, Report, Care, Reach out, and Tell Them to Stop are all examples.
400
We learned 5 rules in this book to respond to teasing. 1. Ignore 2. Walk Away 3. Change the Subject 4. Make a Joke 5. Agree
"Simon's Hook"
400
You look like you are feeling_______because______.
You seem to be feeling_________.
I hear you saying that_________.
All these are examples of what skill?
Paraphrasing!
400
A person who paraphrases, is neutral, and listens to both sides of the story. They are called a ________________.
What is a mediator.
400
You get in fight with a friend, and she says, "Well in September you called me that mean name" This is an example of what foul?
Bringing up the past.
400
What is the definition of bullying?
Repeated, Targeted, Power Imbalance
500
These two books taught us about friendship bullying.
What are "Just Kidding" and "My Secret Bully"
500
Looking, Seeking and Listening with your heart are examples of what?
Empathy.
500
I will talk to the person before I attack; I will talk to the person before I counter attack.
What is the end of the Zook/Yook mediation. Much better than hurting each other!
500
You get in a conflict with a friend he says, " Well I called you a name and you deserved because you pushed me." This is an example of what foul?