Setting Goals & Decision Making
Stop, Think, Act, Reflect
Speaker and Listener
What are the roles in a conversation?
Respectful, trustworthy, fun, understanding, supportive
A disagreement between two or more people
What is a conflict?
Telling or complaining about the actions of someone else just to get them in trouble
What is snitching?
A result of something that happened.
What is a consequence?
Blue, Depressed, Heartbroken
When friends or classmates try to get us to do something we don't really want to
What is peer pressure?
If it's a small problem let it go
What is don't sweat the small stuff?
The bully, the target, the witness
Who are people involved in a bullying situation?
Name it, Picture yourself reaching it, Say I can, Think how to do it, Go for it, Celebrate your success
What are the steps to reach a goal?
Racing heart, Tensing muscles, Laughing, Crying, Sweaty hands
What are physical responses to emotions?
Belief in yourself and abilities
What is self confidence?
Compromise and Win-Win
Healthy ways to solve conflict
Intentional harm done to a person
Personal, Positive, Possible, and Specific
What are the 4 goal naming critera?
Someone who has a confident tone of voice, good body posture and makes eye contact.
What is an assertive speaker?
Telling a person the consequences of their actions in attempt to be a positive influence
What is stating the facts?
Conflict heating up or getting worse.
What is escalation?
Jail, Regret, Fear, Stress, Physical Injury, loss of friends and family, drop in grades
What are consequences of violence?
Jorge made a list of the people and things that could help him accomplish his goal.
What is step 4 of the goal setting process? (Think How to Do it)
Tone of voice, Facial expressions and Body Language
What are Non-verbal communication cues?
Helps to build confidence in yourself and abilities
What is positive thinking?
Relax your body, Call a person by name, Ask to hear the other persons point of view
What are ways to deescalate conflict?
Dramatic depictions of seemly "harmless" behaviors
What is media violence?