Build Trust
What is one way to build trust with your mom?
Tell the truth
Follow through
Admit mistakes
When I feel embarrassed, I might want to
Hide it
Blame
Say something that isn’t true
Mom asks, “Did you finish homework?” You didn’t. What could we say?
“No.”
“I didn’t finish.”
“I need help.”
What happens when people find out you didn’t tell the truth?
Trust goes down
More consequences
If you forgot your homework, what helps build trust?
Say you forgot
Ask for help
Make a plan to finish it
When I feel scared of getting in trouble, I might
Avoid
Deny
Change the story
You forgot homework. What could we say?
“I forgot.”
“I’ll do it now.”
What happens when you tell the truth right away?
Trust can grow
Problem gets solved faster
If you don’t understand something, what builds trust?
Say “I don’t understand”
Ask for help
Tell the teacher or mom
When I feel mad, I might say something I don’t mean. What is a better feeling word I could use?
“I’m frustrated.”
“I’m upset.”
You’re mad at mom. What could you say?
“I’m mad.”
“I need space.”
Why are words about someone hurting you very serious?
Adults must investigate
It’s about safety
If trust is already low, how do you build it back?
Be honest every time
Do what you say you’ll do
Take responsibility
What feeling usually comes before someone says something that isn’t true?
Scared
Embarrassed
Mad
Ashamed
You don’t understand your homework. What could you say?
“I don’t understand this.”
“Can you help me?”
Which fixes the problem better:
A. Hiding it
B. Telling the truth
Telling the truth