Positive vs. Negative
Self-Talk
Is this Self-Love?
Random!
Real-Life Scenarios
100

This type of self-talk sounds like: “I can try again.”

"What is: Positive Self-Talk"

100

Wearing headphones when noise overwhelms you. Why?

Yes, it is self-love. I am helping myself feel better. 

100

Name one popular game where you can customize your character.

Roblox, Fortnite, etc. 

100

You’re nervous before a test. Name one kind thing you can say to yourself.

"I can do this, I need to take deep breaths, etc."

200

True or False: Positive self-talk means pretending everything is perfect.

False 

200

Skipping sleep to scroll TikTok, Youtube, or play video games all night. Why?

No, it is not self-love. I am not getting enough sleep and will feel tired the next day. 

200

Name a popular sports team. 

Dodgers, Rams, Angels, etc. 

200

A friend cancels plans. What’s a negative thought you might have? What can you say instead? 

"This sucks"= negative thought. "That's okay we can hang out next time!" = positive thought.

300

Something positive we can say instead of: “I always mess things up.”

"I tried my best", "I can try again", etc. 

300

Asking for help when you don’t understand something. Why?

Yes, it is self-love. Asking for help will help me understand better. 

300

This movie contains 5 main characters and takes place in someone's body. 

Inside Out

300

You’re overwhelmed at school. Name one way to advocate for yourself.

Take deep breaths, take a break, ask for help, etc. 
400

This self-talk is more helpful after a mistake. Why?

Positive self-talk. Why: 

400

Telling yourself “I can't do this” after one bad grade. Why?

No, it is not self-love. Telling myself negative words will make me feel bad and upset.

400

This movie is about a robot who cleans up Earth after humans leave it behind.

Wall-E

400

What’s one tool that helps calm your brain?

Music, exercise, etc. 

500

How can negative self-talk affect you and your feelings? 

It can make us feel tired, sad, and upset. 

500

Name one situation where self-love might look “awkward” but helpful.

No "correct" answer :)

500

This team won the 2026 Superbowl. 

Seattle Seahawks. 

500

Describe one way you can show yourself love this week.

Make my favorite snack, watch my favorite show, listen to my favorite music. etc. 

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