Roles in Bullying
Define bully
A person who purposely tries to hurt others by: · Making them feel uncomfortable. · Hurting them by kicking, hitting, pushing, tripping, etc. · Name-calling. · Spreading nasty rumors.
Conflict is:
a. all parties have equal power to solve the problem
b. all parties have equal interest in the outcome
c. all parties are relatively equal size, age, or status
d. a conflict can be resolved by talking or working things out together or with the help from an adult
e. all of the above
e
A friends says to you one time "your shirt is ugly."
Mean and Rude
How might the target feel when he/she is being bullied?
sad, mad, lonely, embarrassed
If you are bullied it is best to handle it alone?
False, there is a power imbalance.
Define bystander
A person who watches bullying happen or hears about it and does nothing to stop the bullying.
Bulling is:
a. a repeated form of mistreatment where the victim cannot stand defend him/herself
b. an imbalance of power
c. usually involves repeated acts of harassment, harm or humiliation
d. all of the above
At lunch, a classmates steals your food every day.
Bullying
What are some different types of bullying?
Cyberbullying, verbal bullying, emotional bullying, physical bullying
It takes courage to report bullying to an adult?
True
Define target
The person who is the victim of teasing, harassment, and bullying.
True or False:
Conflict can be resolved and BULLYING HAS TO BE REPORTED!
True
A classmate calls you an unkind word one time.
Depends! Bullying can be one time, although it is usually repeated. If you are unsure please tell an adult.
What is the difference between teasing and bullying?
Teasing is when both people are joking and neither gets their feelings hurt, and bullying is when it goes on more than once, it’s impactful and hurts someone, there’s a power imbalance, and it’s intentional (on purpose)
Sometimes bystanders are afraid to report the bullying?
True, bystanders may feel that the bully will then target them.
Define upstander
A person who stands up for the target directly to the bully or reports the bullying to an adult.
Conflict or Bullying:
Becky and Jill want to play with Katie. Katie wants to play with both girls. Becky and Kill can't agree on what to play together with Katie. They do not want to share her with each other.
Conflict - Both girls have equal power and they are not attempting to harm each other.
Your best friend has recently started to pick on another student in the class. At first, you thought it was funny, but lately, the teasing has gotten meaner and meaner. You can tell that the student is becoming more and more upset, but the other kids in the class think it is funny.
Bullying
Conflict or Bullying?
Tina tells Sarah that she will tell her secrets and not be friends if she does not do what she wants her to do.
Bullying - Tina is asserting her power over Sarah to get her own way and cotnrol their friendship.
Even if someone is not intentionally bullying another student, it still may be bullying.
True. Although usually bullying is intentional.
Define ally
The person who supports and provides empathy to the target.
Conflict of Bullying?
Johnny says mean things to younger students on the bus and he won't let them sit where they want to sit.
Bullying - Johnny is asserting his power over younger students. He attempts to harm and control them.
A group of your friends are talking negatively about another boy in your class. You think this boy is nice and consider him to be a friend.
Mean and Rude
Define empathy
The ability to understand how another person feels and why the person feels that way.
Frequent bullying can have a long-term affect on the target?
True, it may affect the targets self-esteem.
Bonus: How else?