Erik During Relationship
What Erik did to me!
WHAT IS cheating on me with my friend to edate her
What Ria did!
WHO IS the girl who talked with Erik while we were together, Erik cheated on me with her and she dated him after that.
I think there was a friends with benefits situation with her after me and Erik broke up and it turned into a relationship; Erik showed the results of this off to me when we came back to school. (hickeys)
Me and Erik's behavior after breaking up!
WHAT IS acting the exact same despite him being with someone else, we still called a bit and had deep conversations, we stayed friends for a bit, and he said he was trying to be more honest with me, so I trusted him, but that ended when he confessed to cheating on me
How people reacted to me and Erik breaking up! (to my knowledge)
WHAT IS surprised it finally happened and more surprised it did not happen sooner
"White Shirt Alert"
WHAT IS Will Wilshire is approaching. He is lowkey stalking me and hates me, but people say he really likes me. I gave him a chance at friendship freshman year, and he has held a grudge against me since he would not respect my physical boundaries.
Erik and Ria's behavior with eachother!
WHAT IS Them constantly saying how "twin" they were, shared "png"s w eachother (freaked out fanart of men), videocalled (we didnt even videocall), msged constantly while I was hanging out with Erik at school or even in private, and Erik literally said "If Ria feels like she can't be friends with me because of you, we cannot date."
Ria betrays Elle!
WHAT IS talking behind Elle's back about her being emotionally reliant on Ria, promising not to say anything about information given to her, gave it away anyway, and then trash talks Elle to her friend Lily saying she and my other friend are bad people (FOR DEFENDING ME WHEN I WAS CHEATED ON)
Erik asking for his ID back!
WHAT IS breaking no contact to ask ME who did NOT HAVE THE ID and asked ME to remind my SISTER because he is "blocked" (actively messages in a group chat with us in it so he can contact us but wtv) ALL TO GO TO RIA'S PROM.
Erik and Will's Beef!
WHAT IS Will being hostile towards Erik because me and Erik were dating, even saying "I should have killed you when I had the chance" under his breath around Erik. He would also hit Erik with his poster board for some reason.
My healthiest relationship was with this person!
WHO IS SAM, he prioritized fictional women over me, would scroll NSFW reddit threads in front of me, listen to mommy ASMR with me (did not ask for this, was very strange), invalidated my feelings when I opened up about a bad situation with Will, made me feel insane for being mentally ill. (elaboration is optional)
What Erik did not respect during our relationship!
WHAT IS My boundaries!! He would not ask before doing things with me, frequently made me feel guilty for not doing things with him, talked to girls that made me uncomfortable (that I did not like how they would talk to him, too flirty), would get drunk when I explicitly stated I can't be around him like that (then be around me), yelled around me, that stuff
Ria's feelings for Erik were at this time!
WHEN IS the second she met him, knowing he was my boyfriend at the time. Still talked to him one on one all the time, never talked to me about it.
What Erik said to me at Priya's birthday party!
WHAT IS asking me to block him, asking if I want him around for my panic attacks, mentioning how smelling my sweater still made him feel the same way (eyebrow raise emoji)
My Prom Date! <3
WHO IS MY BEAUTIFUL FRIEND ELLE, she was Ria's best friend but after the Ria betrayal we became close. I wanted to take her to SPX Prom, but I couldn't because I was too poor sad emoji. She was the first person that made me feel validated for my jealousy issues with Erik and Ria
My 6 Month Talking Phase!!
WHO IS THE ONE WHO left me for a girl he was talking to at the same time, then reached out after I blocked him saying their relationship is "flexible".
I should have probably left Erik the second time when this happened!
WHAT IS telling me to go to sleep, then drinking, and drunk calling his ex with Ria, later hung out and said he was going to buy flowers but thought I would understand trying to save money, said it was fine because he got his ex's new bf in call immediately, failed to inform me he was talking alone with her for 2 hours before then alone, said she was flirty and clearly still liked him (all lies) and still chose to keep talking to her after I expressed my discomfort with it
Ria lies to Erik at the start of their relationship!
WHAT IS She said she reached out to me to make amends and tried to talk with me about things surrounding her and Erik. NEVER DID THAT. I reached out on my own EVERY time.
Erik's requests after we broke up!
WHAT IS wanting to stay friends, suggesting hooking up because we are "compatible", said he wants to marry me, how he wants to try again in 5 years, made pacts of sobriety with me, and even a suicide pact.
Erik during Priya's birthday party!
WHAT IS Erik not being very interested in going to her party, went to record a DDR video, Priya spent money on him to go bowling and get stuff at Round 1, and was not respectful about it whatsoever, forgot to buy her a gift too
(in Erik's defense, he tried to get Priya to not spend money and felt bad for her which is why he bought the gift)
Weird situationship that went bad!
WHAT IS ALEX, found all his info because he scored high on a weird test, was told to stop talking to him because he told me to do something bad (elaboration optional) and I REACHED BACK OUT TO HIM, but he was upset with me and eventually unadded me
I should have left Erik for the first time when this happened!
WHAT IS Erik saying he pressured his ex into intimacy (corroborates w the ex), did the same to me and made me think it would be exposure therapy for my PTSD, shoving me, and then hitting things around me, literally told me to break up with him and would not let me touch him or anything when I tried to comfort him. (this was after I gave flowers to him).
Ria's lies to everyone else!
WHAT IS promising Izzy and Elle she would not act on her feelings for Erik, talking with me about issues I had like she actually had them (said she had them, never did), would say stuff like "i need you, you are the only one i can trust to not leave me" and then say that to 3+ people and didnt mean a word of it (left all of them for Erik), and when explaining the situation to friends before it got out about them dating she would just say that she had no idea what was going on while knowingly cheating
Erik's behavior while breaking up with me!
WHAT IS watching me cry and beg him not to give up on me while he just sighs and tries to apologize for giving me any hope of anything worthwhile! Then says he "dreaded the idea of getting up and talking to me" because of how moody I was!
How Erik reacted to people's reactions to our breakup!
WHAT IS being upset people did not ask him for his perspective of things, felt everything he did was okay because he did it to make himself happy, felt sad that people were relieved we broke up
WHO IS ANGEL MARTINEZ, he liked me a lot and continued talking to me throughout high school, but eventually started to get bullied for talking to me so much so then he stopped talking to me and still does not talk to me