List 2 examples of non verbal communication
facial expressions, body language, anything without words
True or False: Pressure can be positive OR negative
TRUE
True or False: Unhealthy relationships always start out unhealthy.
FALSE
blaming behavior on an outside source or makes excuses
Deflecting Responsibility
This type of communicator usually doesn't get what they want, they go with whatever other people want to do and they don't stand up for themselves.
Passive Communicator
what is: social pressure among people of the same age/status
peer pressure
When talking to a friend who is in a potentially abusive situation, what should you focus more on when talking to them about it?
The Behaviors, NOT the partner
never knowing how someone is going to react- having to be careful what you say/do around them
These behaviors are what kind of communication: Listening, Not interrupting, using eye contact, being open to compromise
Assertive
List 2 possible ways to refuse a situation
State your refusal, Give reasons , Use your body language , Change the subject ,Tell a story , Use humor, Make an excuse , Repeat your refusal , Leave the situation
4 stages in the cycle of abuse (in order)
Tensions Building, Incident, Reconciliation, Calm
When someone purposely ruins your achievements, success, or reputation
Sabatoge
This is a way of sharing how you feel without placing blame on someone
I statements
Three strategies for handling/dealing with peer pressure are...
Worry about you, Use refusal Skills, and build respectful relationships
3 Traits a healthy relationships should have
Respect, Trust, Independence, Equality, a Comfortable Pace, Kindness, Taking Responsibility, Fun, Healthy Conflict, Honesty
When someone acts disloyal or dishonest in any way
Betrayal
This type of communicator often gets what they want, but may not have many close friends because of how they behave.
Aggressive Communicator
What do the letters in HELP stand for?
Healthy? Ethical? Legal? Parents/Guardians approve?
What does Consent need to be, to be consent?
or
Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific
When someone tries to control everything you do, usually because of jealousy
Possessiveness