Perspective Taking
How might someone feel if they didn’t get any Valentines today?
Sad, left out, embarrassed
What should you say when someone gives you a Valentine, or says Happy Valentine's Day?
"Thank you!" or "You too!"
What would you do if you see someone sitting alone on Valentine’s Day?
Invite them to sit with you or talk to them.
If you think, “I don’t like this candy,” what should you say instead?
Thank you!
What is one way to show kindness on Valentine’s Day?
Say something nice, give a card, include someone.
How might someone feel when they give you a Valentine?
Excited, nervous, shy, hopeful
What is the polite response if you get candy you don’t like?
Say thank you and be appreciative. Maybe give it to someone else later.
What would you do if you forgot to bring Valentines for your friends?
Apologize and explain you forgot.
If you think, “This card is weird,” should you say it out loud?
No.
Why is it important to include everyone when giving Valentines?
So no one feels left out.
Why might someone say they don’t like Valentine’s Day?
They feel left out, think it’s awkward, or don’t like attention.
What should you do if a friend didn’t give you a Valentine?
Try to stay calm, don't take it personal.
What would you do if your friend is upset because they didn’t get anything?
Comfort them, talk with them, or include them.
If you think, “They only gave me one piece?” what is the better response?
Say thank you, and keep the thought to yourself.
What is something nice you could say to a friend today?
Any compliment (You’re a good friend, I like working with you, etc.).
You’re talking excitedly about your plans with your partner, and your friend suddenly gets quiet. What might be going on for them?
They might feel lonely, jealous, left out, or uncomfortable.
Your friend says, “No one asked me to be their Valentine. I guess I’m just not good enough.”
What is an appropriate response?
Reassure and support them.
Examples:
“That’s not true.”
“You’re awesome.”
“Valentine’s Day doesn’t define you.”
What would you do if someone gives you a Valentine and you feel uncomfortable?
Say thank you politely and keep it simple.
Your friend shows you a Valentine gift they got, and you think, “That’s so cheap and not a good gift.” What is a socially appropriate response you could say instead?
“That’s nice!”
“That was thoughtful of them.”
Or any neutral/positive comment.
If someone looks upset on Valentines Day, what is a kind thing to do?
Ask if they’re okay or talk with them.
You leave someone out of a group Valentine, group chat, or plans, even if it wasn’t on purpose. How might that person feel?
Hurt, excluded, unimportant, or rejected.
Someone asks you to be their Valentine or go out with them, but you’re not interested. What is an appropriate response?
Be kind, honest, and respectful.
Examples:
“Thank you for asking, but I don’t feel that way.”
“I’m really flattered, but I’d rather stay friends.”
“Thanks, but I’m not looking to date right now.”
What would you do if you accidentally left someone out when handing out Valentines?
Apologize and include them.
Someone asks you, “Why didn’t you like the Valentine I gave you?” and you didn’t really like it. What is a socially appropriate way to respond?
Focus on appreciation instead of criticism.
Example: “I really appreciate that you thought of me.”
What is the real purpose of Valentine’s Day?
To show kindness, appreciation, and friendship.