Boundaries & Red Flags
What does it mean when someone "guilt-trips" you?
They try to make you feel bad for saying no.
Which style is best: passive, aggressive, or assertive?
Assertive
What superhero says “I am vengeance”?
Batman
James says: “I don’t see why everyone makes a big deal about my drinking. I’m fine. I don’t need to change.”
Precontemplation
What keeps your breath fresh in group?
Brushing, mouthwash, mints/gum, regularly flossing
True or False: You can care about someone and still set boundaries.
True
Fill in the blank: “I statements” express your ______ without attacking.
feelings and needs
What color pill did Neo take in The Matrix?
Red
Darnell says: “I’ve been sober for a year now. I still go to meetings, but sometimes I get urges.”
Why is hygiene important for housing/jobs?
Shows responsibility and self-care.
What is “love bombing”?
Overwhelming attention or gifts early to gain control.
Why is it risky to yell at your PO/CM?
It hurts your credibility and can escalate a situation.
Name a show set in prison/jail.
👉 Prison Break, Orange is the New Black, 60 Days In
Maria says: “I know my weed use is holding me back, but I’m not sure I’m ready to stop yet.”
Contemplation
How many hours of sleep are best: 4, 6, 8, or 10?
7-9
What can happen if you don’t set clear boundaries in a shared space?
Conflict, resentment, or being taken advantage of.
Give an example of a 3-part assertive message.
“When I don’t get updates, I feel anxious. I’d appreciate it if we could review my status.”
What movie says, “Life is like a box of chocolates”?
Forrest Gump
Luis says: “I’ve been clean for two months. I’m going to groups and avoiding old friends.”
Action
Name 3 red flags that could hurt your recovery.
Guilt-tripping, fast pressure, disrespect, ignoring “no,” isolation.
Name 2 things that show you take recovery seriously.
Keeping appointments, honesty, follow-through, respectful tone.
What subject did Walter White teach in Breaking Bad?
Chemistry
Andre says: “I’ve cut down a lot and I’m looking into treatment programs. I’m planning to start next week.”
Preparation
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