Before the Accident
The Accident
Caring for RJ
Insurance and Struggles
Themes and Meaning
100

RJ played this musical instrument in high school.

Drums

100

RJ suffered this serious injury in the car accident.

traumatic brain injury (TBI)

100

Stephanie and Emma turned this room into a hospital room for RJ.

his bedroom

100

Stephanie’s insurance company failed to provide this important benefits document

Summary Plan Description

100

After the accident, RJ found comfort in attending this weekly religious service.

Mass

200

RJ was cast as this famous character in his school production of To Kill a Mockingbird.

Atticus Finch

200

RJ was driving to visit this person when the accident happened.

his best friend

200

RJ received nutrition through this medical tube in his stomach.

a PEG tube

200

This federal law was violated when Stephanie’s employer and insurance company acted illegally

ERISA (Employee Retirement Income Security Act)

200

The word RJ said most often after losing much of his speech ability was this.

Mom

300

RJ attended this type of school where he got in trouble for his long hair.

Catholic school

300

Stephanie first recognized RJ in the hospital by noticing this.

his haircut

300

Emma jokingly said she would help care for RJ as long as it did not involve this “zone.”

the “Speedo zone”

300

Stephanie lost her job shortly after taking leave under this federal act.

Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA)

300

Stephanie compares life without RJ to this astronomical event.

total eclipse of the sun

400

After RJ got his haircut, Stephanie realized this about her son

that he was becoming a man

400

The hospital Stephanie was taken to had this specialized medical unit.

a trauma center

400

RJ slowly regained the ability to communicate “yes” and “no” using these hand gestures.

thumbs-up and thumbs-down

400

Stephanie could not afford this amount of money that an ERISA lawyer requested as a retainer

$30,000

400

At the end of the story, Stephanie wonders if her purpose was simply to do this with RJ.

walk with him

500

Stephanie describes feeling this emotion immediately after RJ was born following three days of labor.

exhaustion

500

Although RJ had many injuries, Stephanie initially worried most about this broken body part because she did not yet understand TBIs.

his pelvis

500

One sign of RJ’s personality returning was that he did this to Emma, but refused to do it to his mother.

flipping her off

500

The experience inspired Stephanie’s friends to create this type of organization to help families battling insurance companies.

nonprofit organization

500

A major theme of “Walking with RJ” is the enduring power of this type of relationship.

mother’s love

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