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ACCEPTS/DEARMAN
Self-Care & Protective Factors
Boundaries/Circle of Control
100

Give 2 examples of sensations you can create

Cold shower, holding ice, drinking something hot, eating something spicy/sour.

100

What are 2 ways to "reinforce" when someone responds well to you?

Hug them, say thank you, kind gesture, smiling

100

Protective factors are..

things that contribute to mental health, and allow a person to be resilient in the face of challenges.

100

What are 2 features of healthy boundaries?

values own opinions, doesn't compromise values for others, shares personal info in an appropriate way, knows personal wants and needs and communicates effectively, accepting when others say no to them.

200

How many stages of grief are there and what are they?

5 & Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance

200

How can you create a new emotion that competes with your distressing emotion?

Practice deep breathing, watching a funny movie, go for a walk.

200

Self care activities are ______

things you do to maintain good health and improve well being.

200

What are 2 features of porous boundaries?

Overshares personal info, difficulty saying no to requests of others, overinvolved with others' problems, dependent on opinions of others, accepting of abuse or disrespect, fears rejection if they do not comply with others.

300

How can you "Appear Confident" ?

Stand up straight, make appropriate eye contact, speak clearly, and avoid fidgeting.

300

True or False: ACCEPTS is a technique used to aid in effective communication

False

300

What are some protective factors out of your control?

family, neighborhood you grew up in and genetics

300

Name 3 things outside of your control

The past, future, opinions of others, actions of others, outcomes of my efforts, what others think of me

400

Name 2 Grief Myths

There is a "right" way to grieve, only the loss of a loved one causes grief, people need therapy to recover from grief, avoid bringing up someone's grief, and grief should resolve after a certain period of time.

400

What does ACCEPTS stand for?

Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing Away, Thoughts, Sensations.

400

What are the 5 Self-Care Domains we discussed in the assessment?

Physical, Psychological/Emotions, Social, Spiritual, and Professional

400

What are the 3 personal types of boundaries?

Porous, rigid, healthy

500

What are 2 features of rigid boundaries?

avoids intimacy and close relationships, unlikely to ask for help, has few close relationships, very protective of personal information, may seem detached-even with romantic partners, keeps others at a distance to avoid possibility of rejection

500

What does DEARMAN stand for?

Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindfulness, Appear Confident, Negotiate

500

What are the 6 protective factors we discussed?

social support, coping skills, physical health, sense of purpose, self-esteem, and healthy thinking

500

What are 3 things that are in your control?

thoughts/actions, how you speak to yourself, goals you set, what you give your energy to, boundaries

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