Family Matters
What are the 4 dysfunctional roles that children can take on?
Hero
Placater
Lost Child
Scapegoat
What are 2 of the unhealthy parenting styles we discussed?
Too harsh
Too Lenient
What was name of the oldest girl?
Lizzy
Who shared that they had a long good marriage?
Dee
What are 3 basic needs of babies?
Food/drink
Changing
Bathing
Protection
Cuddling/bonding
What is one characteristic or rule of a dysfunctional family?
Keep silent
Don't talk about emotions
Codependence
Act Rigidly
Be in Denial, Feel Isolated
Abandonment
Neglect
Abuse
What was thrown in the toilet?
Detangler
Who went to the same school for radiology?
Larrian and Jazmon
What are the three categories of goals in each stage?
Emotional
Social
Intellectual
How can you begin to heal from dysfunction?
Talk about it with a Therapist
Write letters
Talk with your family if they are safe
What is one mistake that parent's make with their children?
Not doing something...
Not letting children express their feelings
Not listening to their children
Not helping children understand their feelings
Not teaching good problem solving or decision making
Demolition of the kitchen
Who reads the most?
Tate
At which stage to people develop their identity and personality?
Adolescence
What are the three things that we talked about overcoming?
Hurt
Anger
Fear
Why do fathers have a hard time expressing their feelings?
Because men are often taught to be strong and silent, some fathers may have a hard time expressing their feelings to anyone.
What lesson did we learn from Pete's mom?
That people learn they are unlovable and have to work through that.
Who talked the most during small group on ice breaker night?
Rusty
During what stage do kids determine the relationship between cause and effect?
Early Childhood
What are 3 of the 5 characteristics of a healthy family?
Open Communication
Shared decision making
Joint action
Genuine Concern for one another
Trust/Mutual Respect
Why do we talk about our childhood and the things that happened?
Because they often affect us in adulthood as well.
What was the name of the character who the Blind Side joke was made about?
October
Who all likes to play music? There are at least 3.
Rawb
James S
Paul
I am sorry if I missed anyone
Name the stages of development. There are 4
Infancy
Early Childhood
Preadolescence/school age
Adolescence