dysfunctional families
Family relationships and roles in unhealthy families are called
dysfunctional
In a healthy family system...
communication is open and rules are flexible and enforced fairly and consistently.
you can begin to deal with life problems in a positive way
recovery
These are the 3 basic needs of humans
food shelter companionship
in dysfunctional families children growing up
have a difficult time understanding what is real and what is not
Interdependence includes these 5 aspects
1.open communication
2.shared decisions
3.join action
4.trust
5.concern for each other
A child who assumes adult responsibilities, organize other children, and make sure their needs are met
the hero
This is necessary to solve your problem
a willingness
These need are specific to our environment needs
safety needs
You can learn to trust by
sharing your feelings
an emotional state of extreme discomfort and stress that result from a major painful experience
trama
This role takes care of the family's emotional needs and is the most sensitive
the placater
involves looking at the issue
problem solving
Generally, involve being part of some type of group that have a common purpose
social needs
What is parenting
Taking care of babies,young children ect..
This is a unhealthy way of coping
codependency
In a healthy family
family members can grow mature and experiment with social interactions
This means willingness to change
Owning the problem
what makes a relationship healthy?
what is the 12 steps of a healthy relationship
What is the name of the program
ISUDT
The 4 rules of a dysfunctional family
1.act rigidly
2. be silent
3. be in denial
4. feel isolated
The main focus of attention
scapegoat
1.identify your problem
2.owing the problem
3.list possible solutions
4.describe what might happen
5 make a plan & stick to it
6.learn from the outcome
problem solving
what psychologist is mentioned regarding an ideal healthy relationship
Janet Woititz
Based on these lessons which one talks about family serets
lib 22