Friendship Feels
Your close friend starts hanging out with a group that constantly insults you behind your back. They say, “They’re just joking — don’t take it personally.” What would you do?
Address your feelings directly and set boundaries; recognize when a friendship becomes toxic even if it’s hard to walk away.
You post a group photo, and one person asks you to take it down. What would you do?
Respect their wishes and remove it.
Someone keeps texting you even after you say you’re not interested. What would you do?
Reaffirm boundaries clearly and block if necessary.
Your roommate keeps “forgetting” to pay their share of the utilities but always posts about going out to eat. You need the money. What would you do?
Have a direct, calm conversation about fairness and accountability; set boundaries or a payment plan instead of silently resenting it.
You’re in a new friend group that constantly makes fun of others. They’ve never targeted you, but their jokes make you uncomfortable. Speaking up might make you an outsider. What would you do?
Prioritize your values over acceptance — either challenge the behavior respectfully or distance yourself; integrity > belonging.
You’re in a situation where your best friend asks for your advice — but you know they really want you to agree with them, not be honest. What would you do?
Choose honesty with empathy; speak your truth respectfully even if it risks tension.
You see a viral post spreading false information. What would you do?
Verify before sharing or politely correct misinformation.
You see a friend being treated disrespectfully in their relationship. What would you do?
Offer support privately, not judgment, and encourage them to seek help.
You’re working a part-time job, and your friend asks you to clock them in early so they can get paid for time they didn’t work. They say, “It’s no big deal.” What would you do?
Refuse and explain it’s dishonest and could cost both of you your jobs; protect your integrity even if it strains the friendship.
A friend starts copying your style, hobbies, and even phrases. You feel irritated but also flattered. What would you do?
Acknowledge your feelings, talk openly, and practice empathy — imitation can come from admiration, but healthy boundaries matter.
A friend tells you a secret that reveals they’ve hurt someone else. They beg you not to tell anyone. What would you do?
Weigh confidentiality vs. harm — encourage them to take responsibility, and if someone’s safety is at risk, report or intervene appropriately.
A stranger sends you a message offering money for a “favor.” What would you do?
Ignore, block, and report for safety.
Your partner shares a private photo of you without asking. What would you do?
Tell them it’s a violation of trust and consider ending the relationship; protect your privacy.
You lend money to a friend for something important, but later you see them spend on luxuries instead. They still haven’t paid you back. What would you do?
Address it directly without hostility, make repayment expectations clear, and reflect on whether to lend again — balance empathy with boundaries.
During a class debate, you realize your honest opinion on a controversial topic goes against what most of your peers think. Do you share it?
Yes — but respectfully. Integrity means expressing your views thoughtfully, even if it’s unpopular, and staying open to others’ perspectives.
You suspect your friend is using your personal struggles as “content” for sympathy posts online without naming you. What would you do?
Privately confront them, explain how it violates your trust, and decide if the friendship is healthy to maintain.
A friend posts something self-destructive. What would you do?
Reach out directly, check on them, and tell a trusted adult if needed.
You like someone but learn they’re already in a relationship. What would you do?
Respect boundaries and back off — integrity comes first.
You find a cash-filled envelope in a parking lot with no ID. You could really use the money for rent. What would you do?
Turn it in to lost and found or report it — resisting temptation even under financial stress tests true character.
You get an opportunity for recognition, but your success partly comes from ideas your friend shared privately. No one would know if you took full credit. What would you do?
Acknowledge your friend’s contribution publicly; integrity is doing right even when unseen — credit builds trust.
Your long-time friend is drifting away and becoming distant. You realize you’ve grown in different directions, but they want things to stay the same. What would you do?
Have an honest conversation about change; allow space for growth and endings — valuing the friendship without forcing connection.
You accidentally share a meme that turns out to be offensive. What would you do?
Delete it, take accountability, and learn why it was harmful before reposting anything else.
A friend “jokes” about someone’s identity or orientation. What would you do?
Call it out calmly and explain why it’s not okay — promote respect.
You’re offered an internship at a company whose values clash with your own (e.g., environmental, political, or ethical issues). It pays well, and you need the money. What would you do?
Reflect on personal ethics vs. financial need; weigh short-term gain against long-term integrity and possible regret.
You’ve grown and changed a lot — your beliefs, priorities, and identity are evolving. Your old friends accuse you of “acting different” and being “fake.” What would you do?
Explain that growth isn’t betrayal — staying authentic means allowing yourself to evolve while respecting others’ pace of change.