Dating
You want to ask someone on a date, but feel nervous. What should you do/say?
Tell them how you feel, practice what to say, find out of they have similar feelings, etc.
You have a crush on someone. You want to hold their hand. As you reach towards it, they pull their hand away. What do you do/say?
It would be best not to respond. Rejection is hard, but it's better to not be creepy!
You are dating someone new, but your ex texts you that they want to talk. What do you do/say?
It is important to respect your current partner. Decide if you want to be with them or your ex and communicate with your current partner.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend does not compliment the way you look on your date. It hurts your feelings. What do you do/say?
Use an I statement to communicate your feelings. Try your best not to place blame on your boyfriend/girlfriend.
BACK OFF! People are NOT allowed to touch you without your consent.
You told someone that you would go on a date with them, but then you change your mind and don't want to. What can you do/say?
Use a cover story to cancel, or if you feel comfortable tell them you changed your mind.
You spend a lot of time writing a letter to someone, telling them how you feel, and when you give it to them, they crumple it up and throw it out. What do you say/do?
It would be best to move on. You deserve better!
You break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend, but you want to be their friend. What can you do/say?
Tell them you would like to remain friends, but respect their decision. Dating and friendship are both choices!
Your boyfriend/girlfriend says they like your hair long, but you like to cut it short. What do you do/say?
Remember your boyfriend/girlfriend cannot control you. You are still free to make choices.
Someone tries to kiss you. You do not want to be kissed, so you pull away. They get angry. What do you do/say?
BACK OFF! People cannot touch you without your consent. Find a safe place/adult if you are alone.
You ask someone to go on a date Friday night, but they say that they are busy. What can you do/say?
Give them your phone number to measure interest and tell them they can call or text you when they might be available.
Someone asks you to be their boyfriend/girlfriend. You like them, but only as a friend. What do you do/say?
Tell them nicely that you would like to just remain friends. Dating is a choice!
You break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend, but the next day wish you were still together. What do you do/say?
It is normal to miss someone, even if you broke up with them. Think about why you broke up with them and give yourself time to heal. If you still feel like you want to be together, then communicate that with them.
You find out that your girlfriend/boyfriend is also dating someone else, even though you thought you were exclusive. What do you do/say?
Have a conversation with them to find out where the relationship stands in their eyes so you are both on the same page.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend is pressuring you to do something that you do not want to do. What do you do/say?
Set boundaries with them. They need to respect what you are comfortable with.
Someone that you have been casually going on dates with tells you that they want to be exclusive. What do you say/do?
If you feel the same way agree, or tell them you don't feel the same way.
Someone asks you on a date, but you do not like them. Instead, you have a crush on their friend. What do you say/do?
Kindly reject their offer. They do not need to know you like their friend. Be nice!
Your boyfriend/girlfriend tells you that they want to break up. What do you do/say?
Dating is a choice. You are allowed to ask questions, but you also have to respect their choice.
You want to invite your girlfriend/boyfriend over for dinner, but feel nervous they may use inappropriate language at the table. What do you do/say?
Tell them how you're feeling.
You want to date someone, but they tell you that they are just looking to "hook up" but not date. What do you do/say?
Set boundaries if you want to date. If they are still not interested it would be best to move on to someone else.
Your crush asks you out on a date and you accept. Yo do not know what to wear. What should you do/say?
Ask where the date will be.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend is going out to dinner for their birthday, but they did not invite you. What do you do/say?
Communicate your feelings to them. Try to remain calm. Being open and honest is best!
You were exclusive with your boyfriend/girlfriend, but they blocked your phone number and ghosted you. What do you do/say?
You deserve better! If they won't talk to you do your best to heal and move on.
You feel jealous when you see your boyfriend/girlfriend talking t someone else at school. What do you do/say?
Calmly explain how you are feeling and have a conversation with your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Your boyfriend/girlfriend tells you that they want your relationship to be a secret, and for nobody else to know. What do you do/say?
If you are not comfortable with that, then express how you feel. Do not settle.